"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is this odd or is it just me?

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I just got back from Mexico with a few of my girlfriends a yesterday. While there a guy I'm casually seeing asked me when I would be coming back home (didn't even tell him I was leaving the country). I told him tomorrow (yesterday). The next day I posted on Snapchat that it 'felt good to be home". Not too long after that I saw that he looked at my snap then he contacted me asking if I behaved myself. I said I might have *smirk face*. Then he said good girl and that was it.

Is this odd or is it just me?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why are we giving advice to a female on a mens dating site?

Im gonna go write to Cosmo or some shít and see how helpful they are.
 
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Yewki said:
If you want him to follow through, stop being coy and show him more interest. Otherwise you'll just have to... keep waiting.

Anything else?
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I'm not sure. I'm starting to think he's just keeping me as on option/backburner.

He finally came out and asked about dinner and when I would be free. I said starting Tuesday on (traveling for work) and all he said was, "sounds good". The heck?
 
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ritapita20 said:
I'm not sure. I'm starting to think he's just keeping me as on option/backburner.

He finally came out and asked about dinner and when I would be free. I said starting Tuesday on (traveling for work) and all he said was, "sounds good". The heck?
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He thinks you are the one and is having a hard time mustering up the courage
to express this to you.

Show up at his door with a bottle of MacAllan whiskey and a rose between your
teeth and tell him it's time for the fireworks to begin.
 
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He wants to fcuk you

If I pulled that sexual teasing asking if you were a naughty girl, I would've followed it up with saying, hey I'm free x day, let's grab supper.

Both of you are unsure and have 1 foot in and 1 out
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CMNILS87 said:
He wants to fcuk you

If I pulled that sexual teasing asking if you were a naughty girl, I would've followed it up with saying, hey I'm free x day, let's grab supper.

Both of you are unsure and have 1 foot in and 1 out
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Right? That's what I was expecting to be honest lol that's why I teased back. We already slept together so I figured all this other stuff would be easy peasy for him to do. I feel like the hard part is over with.
 
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Right? That's what I was expecting to be honest lol that's why I teased back. We already slept together so I figured all this other stuff would be easy peasy for him to do. I feel like the hard part is over with.
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Ok so you said you were seeing somebody, you didn't say sex. Ask him to do supper at home and get takeout or cook. Problem solved, less stress. You're welcome
 
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