spiegel549
Senior Don Juan
What up boys?
I got a pretty good idea on what my game plan is here, but it would be great to get some outside feedback.
I work in the same building as a really high end gym chain. Everyone that goes there are basically wealthy lawyers, doctors, hot moms, hot chicks etc. (people with money) So I go in everyday and hit up there "shake bar," and get myself a protein shake.
I first noticed this HB8 working behind the counter and me always being friendly would always go in the morning and say hello to her. Long story short by luck she was walking to work the same time I was walking back to my office and we struck up a convo. Exchanged names, got into some small talk and she asked questions and seemed genuinely interested. Not enough time to number close, and knowing I would see her again, I forgot about it.
Now today I went in to get a shake and she was waiting in line to get a protein shake. Her face lit up and she started a conversation with me. This would be our 3rd interacti She asked me A LOT of questions. Interest definitely seemed really high, body language was strong and after she got her shake she continued to stand there and chat with me. I flirted, mentioned she looked cute in her outfit (was wearing a cute dress) for an event the gym was having today. She even invited me to the event knowing I wasn't a member and said she would hook me up with some drinks!
BTW I forgot to add, the reason why I didn't number close today was there was a line of people behind me, the guy behind the shake counter was holding my drink waiting for me to pay so I felt rushed. We left off at her inviting me to the event.
My boss apparently knows who she is because he owns apartment buildings and she is one of his new tenants and claims she has a boyfriend she is on/off with. (yet to be confirmed)
I have enough ballz to just approach next morning I see her and ask her out but I am not sure if that is the "smoothest and most cool" approach to execute it. Even if I get shut down I know I can spin it where seeing her will still be cool. I just need a good approach on it.
Should I approach the desk straight up and ask? Or should I be patient and wait for another small convo to happen and go for the close then?
Tell what you guys think. Appreciate it!
I got a pretty good idea on what my game plan is here, but it would be great to get some outside feedback.
I work in the same building as a really high end gym chain. Everyone that goes there are basically wealthy lawyers, doctors, hot moms, hot chicks etc. (people with money) So I go in everyday and hit up there "shake bar," and get myself a protein shake.
I first noticed this HB8 working behind the counter and me always being friendly would always go in the morning and say hello to her. Long story short by luck she was walking to work the same time I was walking back to my office and we struck up a convo. Exchanged names, got into some small talk and she asked questions and seemed genuinely interested. Not enough time to number close, and knowing I would see her again, I forgot about it.
Now today I went in to get a shake and she was waiting in line to get a protein shake. Her face lit up and she started a conversation with me. This would be our 3rd interacti She asked me A LOT of questions. Interest definitely seemed really high, body language was strong and after she got her shake she continued to stand there and chat with me. I flirted, mentioned she looked cute in her outfit (was wearing a cute dress) for an event the gym was having today. She even invited me to the event knowing I wasn't a member and said she would hook me up with some drinks!
BTW I forgot to add, the reason why I didn't number close today was there was a line of people behind me, the guy behind the shake counter was holding my drink waiting for me to pay so I felt rushed. We left off at her inviting me to the event.
My boss apparently knows who she is because he owns apartment buildings and she is one of his new tenants and claims she has a boyfriend she is on/off with. (yet to be confirmed)
I have enough ballz to just approach next morning I see her and ask her out but I am not sure if that is the "smoothest and most cool" approach to execute it. Even if I get shut down I know I can spin it where seeing her will still be cool. I just need a good approach on it.
Should I approach the desk straight up and ask? Or should I be patient and wait for another small convo to happen and go for the close then?
Tell what you guys think. Appreciate it!
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