"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How much more different would things be if there was a male birth control pill?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
logicallefty
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But it would change the game for men, completely. Currently almost all of the power lies in the woman's hands. Pregnancy is just as treacherous for men as it is for women. Of course men do not give actual birth, but they are held responsible for the child just as much as the woman, hence things like child support. There
Currently women have... Intrauterine devices, implants, rings, shots, patches, pills, and all kinds of things. I am not even considering abortion, plan B, and other options.
And men have what for contraceptives... just condoms?
Unlike a woman, a man has no ability to control his own fertility. Reproductive rights are denied to men. Male birth control would be a great equalizer, giving freedom to men.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Great! I hope it's like vodka, so I can make martinis! LOL!!!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
There are over 150,000 children in America waiting for adoption. It is a burden on our system, and reducing that would have a positive effect. It would reduce abortions greatly, and thus less moral outrage. Also single parent households are EVERYWHERE and they mostly tend to be a financial burden on the state as single parent households tend to have higher levels of government assistance (strong correlation). It can help manage overpopulation, even if by a small degree. And those are just a few off of the top of my head...
Edit: even with a male pill out I will still use condoms though. And I suggest most men do too. I had got chlamydia before and thankfully it was one of those STDs that is easily cured. I am not ever going without the rubber again. I think I just need to stay away from them slvts they are bad for my health.
YawataNoKami
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Month after month women will be subject to the most vile actions in hopes that they will be able to experience the gift of motherhood. Oh the horror!
logicallefty
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My late step dad died a year ago at 81. He was alpha that got lots of tail prior to marring my mom. He told a story from around 1983 where he was between his first wife and my mom, the VP of a major battery company, single, around 50 years old, and hitting 20s b|tches hard. There was this 20something chick in his circle of friends who everyone know was trying to sleep around, get preggo, and find a sugar daddy. My step dad played dump on purpose and got in her pants. He said after he blew his load in her she made some comment about not using protection and a fake "uh oh I hope I don't get pregnant". But that was her goal and he knew it. He said he responded "well I am so glad to ease your worries, I had a vasectomy a few months ago.. When can we do this again?" He said she got huffing p|ssed, got dressed, and stormed out.. And he sat there and laughed right in her face.... I think he also said after that she no longer associated with the group of friends they were in.. LMFAO. RIP you old horny bastard!!
The underlying reason why women have always hated "game," hated PUAs, hated the independent transition of men from betas to alphas...has been that women want to be the only ones to choose who to sleep with. They want to be able to discern the alpha sh!tlords who they can have fun with from the beta providers who they can fawn alpha offspring on for support. Any attempt by men to assert their own choice and remove women from the pedestal is "misogyny."
Another related discussion worth having is the merits of mandatory state-sanctioned paternity testing at birth. Then sit back and watch the hamster go nuclear.
Something all men who want autonomy in life should consider, if they want to have kids, is seeking out an egg donor and surrogacy. Remove a woman's last trump card - her uterus - and have kids on your own terms.