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She caught me ****ing another *****, is it finished

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Maybe you can keep her around. But there's a big difference between her assuming you're seeing other chicks and her actually hearing you banging another one and moaning. Hamster wheel is spinning. She probably picked up on you being pissed and wanted to make amends that night, but it's her fault she came over unannounced like that.
What do you mean when you say hamster wheel is spinning? I saw someone say that earlier, but wasn't sure on the terminology.
 

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Remember that little voice in your head when you were super AFC to think everything over. When they hamster spinning on here, most of the master DJ refer to a Gal overthinking a situation or thinking about it 24/7. This gal just found out that you're banging another girl which just social proofed you as an in demand male. In this case, I'd think she's backing off with that big text, it seems really somber and her "emotional core" is hurt because she hasn't locked you down. I think....she was thinking after casually dating for 5-6 months that you weren't seeing anybody else, but little missy got thrown for a loop. Don't contact and let her come to you, I guarantee it'll be a lets be exclusive or a goodbye.
 

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Remember that little voice in your head when you were super AFC to think everything over. When they hamster spinning on here, most of the master DJ refer to a Gal overthinking a situation or thinking about it 24/7. This gal just found out that you're banging another girl which just social proofed you as an in demand male. In this case, I'd think she's backing off with that big text, it seems really somber and her "emotional core" is hurt because she hasn't locked you down. I think....she was thinking after casually dating for 5-6 months that you weren't seeing anybody else, but little missy got thrown for a loop. Don't contact and let her come to you, I guarantee it'll be a lets be exclusive or a goodbye.
She contacted me last night at about 11pm. She wants to come see me Saturday.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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***UPDATE***

Her interest level is through the roof, she wants the D bad Saturday. Thanks for the moral support gentlemen.
Social proof + mate competition + alpha frame (what we helped guide you to here) = wants the D bad.
 

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The culmination of don juan training. Life is crazy man, I just can't believe women really act like this.
Glad I was wrong. Girl must really have her panties in a bunch thinking another girl is gonna "steal her man".
 

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Just tell her the truth. be like look you fukkin pissed me off earlier and plate 2 was there to mend my wounds and yes I was having sex with her. you and I are not exclusive and you dont see me creeping around your place to see who's next on your c0ck carousel. So get down or lay down IDGAF but realize if you want any part of me you need to approach me respectfully do you understand me.
 

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Just tell her the truth. be like look you fukkin pissed me off earlier and plate 2 was there to mend my wounds and yes I was having sex with her. you and I are not exclusive and you dont see me creeping around your place to see who's next on your c0ck carousel. So get down or lay down IDGAF but realize if you want any part of me you need to approach me respectfully do you understand me.
I have a similar response planned for when she brings it up on our date tonight. She's sexy so there's no way she's used to hearing **** like this from guys. Fatality.
 

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I have a similar response planned for when she brings it up on our date tonight. She's sexy so there's no way she's used to hearing **** like this from guys. Fatality.
Saying something like that would be a great way to both "Fatality" the alpha frame you have now and destroy your congruity by now reacting like that after you reacted like an alpha previously. If that's what you want you should definitely go ahead with your similar response.
 

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Main plate showed up unnannounced in middle if night, was balls deep in plate #2, she was screaming and moaning vloud and main plate heard it and started pounding on my door.

I want to keep her as a plate. Since we're not together she can't truly say anything. In your experience, do you guys think it's possible to keep it going after that?
Nope. If she has any self respect ! And if she sticks around any longer, everything will change and you will lose interest in her.
 

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Main plate showed up unnannounced in middle if night, was balls deep in plate #2, she was screaming and moaning vloud and main plate heard it and started pounding on my door.

I want to keep her as a plate. Since we're not together she can't truly say anything. In your experience, do you guys think it's possible to keep it going after that?

Simple man. You arent official.

Tell her we aren't an item and never had that discussion. You can't just be randomly dropping by. Soften it by saying you aren't trying to be mean, just being honest. Nothing about exclustivity was mentioned beforehand.

Don't be afraid to lose her. You haven't done anything wrong and theres always more where she came from.

She will know you are right deep down and women can't control their emotions or desires. So u are good.
 

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This is such a great thread. It's a McDonalds moment - "I'm lovin' it!'
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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She texted me this a little bit ago

"I guess there's different perspectives on more respectful. You are more secretive so i don't see it but I'm more open about it so you do know. I saw that you were talking to other girls even when we were in miami. And how is hearing some girl moan your name imaginary? I put up walls so i don't get hurt. You told me yourself you want your cake and eat it too. How does that not imply you want to hang out with me and still mess with other girls? My perspective of you is so many great things. We were fwb but i wanted more as time passed but i pushed you away bc i was afraid of feeling hurt after i fell for you. Either way everything is cool. N it'd be nice to know when you find out about you winning your case. Good luck. "

Huh!!!
 

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Awaiting the update, OP.

***UPDATE***

Last night we went out for a nice Italian dinner, then saw deadpool, took a cab back to the hotel. We got wasted.

Around 2am we got in bed and i undressed her. We got to the point where I normally put it in, and she just stops me out of nowhere goes cold. I'm just sitting there and i say "so is this your grand design?"

She goes on to tell me "i broke her heart the other night. I broke her heart."

I told her things had come full circle. I stroked her hair and kissed her. Said nothing else on the subject and proceeded to **** her.

As far as I can tell, things are exactly the same as before, except she deleted all our pics off FB. No sweat off my back. I'll keep you guys posted though.
 

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***UPDATE***

Last night we went out for a nice Italian dinner, then saw deadpool, took a cab back to the hotel. We got wasted.

Around 2am we got in bed and i undressed her. We got to the point where I normally put it in, and she just stops me out of nowhere goes cold. I'm just sitting there and i say "so is this your grand design?"

She goes on to tell me "i broke her heart the other night. I broke her heart."

I told her things had come full circle. I stroked her hair and kissed her. Said nothing else on the subject and proceeded to **** her.

As far as I can tell, things are exactly the same as before, except she deleted all our pics off FB. No sweat off my back. I'll keep you guys posted though.
Nice job dude!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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