"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What is your number one deal breaker when it comes to women?

El Payaso

El Payaso

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The one thing that instantly turns you off a woman and stop dating or prospecting her. It can be anything.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bible_Belt

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I can't remember ever having a deal breaker. My job is to close the deal.

For casual sex partners, though, I have sometimes aborted over their refusing a condom when I suggest it. That tells you a lot about what they've been up to.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Huffman

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Gotta second "no sex drive". She's over at your place, playful banter, making jokes about lasting long when she says: "Actually I prefer if it's over quickly".... DUN DUN DUNNNNN. How are we guys supposed to even get it up after that.
 
Bingo-Player

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neediness

boring in bed / lazy

2 things i cant stand

i was going to mention the obvious games they try to play on social media too but they all do it now so its not worth it
 
RangerMIke

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She has to have a decent body. Looks in the face are not that important to me, but she has to be fit and healthy for her age. This is screening criteria.

The most important subjective trait to me is that she has to be willing to put some effort towards me and is willing to chase. Otherwise what's the point. It's like fishing, you toss in the line and you wait for the nibble... I'm not jumping int he water and try to swim after them, the fish always wins and all you get is wet.

After that, she has to be able to hold her own in a conversation... I don't like stupid women. I don't care what she is interested in but she has to have an opinion about something and can talk about it... and it has to be more than her kids or her cats. Sex takes 20 minutes after that... I don't want to hear about the personalities of her different fvcking cats.
 
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Where I'm from we call it:

'being too Hollywood'

I absolutely dread, loathe women who carry themselves in a stuck up manner. Just because you are pretty does not mean you're God's gift to the world. You're just like everyone else. Sadly I am the only one who enforces this belief nowadays.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Acting smug or like she's the ****. I'm well aware of how low quality most women are, so seeing one posturing as the best thing since sliced bread instantly gives me good reason to end the first date early.
 
marmel75

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Boring chicks. And this extends to the bedroom.
 
Konada

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1. Chicks always trying to 1 up and guilt trip you. I take it as a lack of vulnerability and lack of social awareness. Lost count of the number of chicks I had to tell to fvck off because of this.

My philosophy is that if I have to walk on eggshells around them they're probably not worth the time.

2. Boring/no sense of humour
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GS750

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I'd have to agree that games are my #1 too. I find the whole thing so tiring. I'm not in high school.
 
devilkingx2

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1. Lack of a sense of humor/too boring/too serious/etc.

2. Prudishness/lack of sex drive/judgemental/closed minded

3. Questionable character as shown through obvious red flags.

1. Is because I tend not to get along with women like that anyway and my game doesn't work on them(and I'd only ever wanna pump and dump someone like that)

2. If I wanted to have sex with a girl who acts like a 12 year old about sex, I would be in jail for having sex with 12 year olds, since I'm not, I prefer girls who act their age lmao.

3. This when the girl somehow ends up conveying the message to you that she's a cheater or a liar or disloyal or untrustworthy or untrusting and paranoid or completely psycho etc.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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