You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Don't you already have a job even though it doesn't pay you as much?
Does she currently like to "take care of you"? Do you guys relate decently? Is she giving you good sex?
Yep. Doesn't mean I would stop working, would just live a very comfortable life.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yep she treats me well and sex is frequent with her initiating as much as me although she keeps pushing for equality in household decisions and sometimes fights submitting (power play?) even though she admits that I wear the pants. She has said she wants to have joint bank accounts ''what's hers is mine and what's mine is hers''... so I'm thinking of doing what women do and marry for the comfortable life and buying expensive sh!t.
Would you rather a female like her or a br0ke b1tch whose always in your pockets? I think a female with assets who also likes to splurge on you and f0ck you well is a great thing. Best of all worlds.
See, this is how I know I still have some morals ingrained in my brain. I don't like your idea AT ALL, but why? What's wrong with it? Why would you not do what they do? I sitll have a lot of unplugging to do. I say go for it, it clearly benefits you.
2 years.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I fully agree, depending on a woman money will surely bring drama in the future, and one of the best things you can do to live happy is to be frugal. But if the OP wants it, I dont see why not. What I meant is that I read his post and I inmediatly thougth "what a sissy boy, depending on a woman's money", but that's the work of the Femenine Imperative.
It wouldn't be a manipulative tool if you were married to her with joint bank accounts would it? I'm anti marriage myself, but OP has a 2 year record and should play this scenario to his advantage.
To be honest, she is making it sound like a good deal..BUT.. I know down the track she will over-ride a decision I make due to it being her earning the most. There is almost 100% chance of that happening.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
