"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Online Dating - I banged over 140 girls from there without spending money

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Stagger Lee

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My goal is to convert all you demons into angels and family men ;)
You need to start with the women first. The problem is women who are even trying to get married are trying to marry the same 20% of guys. It doesn't work. You women need to take what you can actually get or improve yourselves.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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No, because it results in:

  1. Financial burden
  2. Loss of time
  3. Loss of freedom
  4. Loss of independence
  5. Increases vulnerability
  6. Not to mention it's boring

Why would you want to?

Only if you become whipped and let the girl lead.
 

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You need to start with the women first. The problem is women who are even trying to get married are trying to marry the same 20% of guys. It doesn't work. You women need to take what you can actually get or improve yourselves.
Well ok I agree western women are not wife material. .but plz don't think all women are like this! Eastern European, orientation, south asiAn and Latin American women are all very male ,friendly and loving.

So plz don't give up ok marriage! American women can also be good. But we are mostly in rural areas :)
 

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Where do you live? USA,canada or europe? Can you pm your pic?
Why do you need a pic? Aren't you only after commitment? And by the way, forget about it, I just saw that you are muslim, and I don't want my kids to be desert dwellers.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This thread is way off topic.

We go from getting laid online to a flaming war that's totally irrelevant. Not cool.

Thread closed. Clear out the courtroom.
 
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