"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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You meet a woman. She has had a hard life.
Dad beat her up a lot, grandad tried to groom her, she tried to kill herself. She is a lovely, thoughtful & caring person who you get on great with. You have found a great match.

Do you continue seeing her?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Judge based on her behavior and actions. Spin plates, if she acts up then drop her.
 
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A little bit of insecurity will help a woman stay loyal. However, if she starts going bat5hit crazy on you for something, then drop her.

Keep your eyes open for red flags. Until one comes up, enjoy fvcking her.
 
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She will be an emotional parasite. Recommend her to go see a therapist and never see her again.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ask yourself if you genuinely like her or if you love the fact that she is vulnerable ?

People have hard lifes that does not make them bad people. But you are not responsible for her life so don't be a caretaker. She is not a victim anymore.
 
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Rainman4707 said:
You meet a woman. She has had a hard life.
Dad beat her up a lot, grandad tried to groom her, she tried to kill herself.

Do you continue seeing her?
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So in other words, she is just like every other woman now days?
 
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