"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lance MAson

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Lance and Pickup101

I've reviewed alot of his material and have a senior coach of his named Sean, writing a regular column on my blog.

I would say... depends on what you're looking for.

I recommend for pickup... Mystery.

I recommend for overall game... David D.

I recommend for a unique blend of pickup/overall game... Lance and Pickup101.

I recommend for overall pickup and life success... Stephen Nash.

I've met all of those guys, spare David D. I would say, they're all pros, very confident and obviously successful with women. You can't go wrong with most. (Although if you don't have an outcome... then you'll be wasting your time)

I say, it depends on what you're outcome is.... if you want to have sex with random girls... Mystery. Want relationships and a natural, confident lifestyle? Stephen Nash. Like a blend that will give you some elements of both? Pickup101

Good luck. If you have questions, I've looked at pretty much all of Lance's material, glad to help.
 

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The thing I like about Lance is that he is very positive and cautious about what he publishes. If someone has a tendency to be negative, I think his materials will have a big boost for them.

With Mystery Method as a new student you have to remember that Mystery has an amazing a positive vibe. There are some real weirdos out there who take his ideas and make them negative... like they have gotten the idea that Mystery acts 'mean and nasty' to chicks and that makes them comply when they act *****y. I guess it stems from an overarching misinterpretation of certain disqualifiers.

Same with Swinggcat, his material is great, but there are certain parts that some guys have perceived to mean that being rude or arrogant will make hawtees want them. I have not seen the guys who perceive things this way to have any real success with women. I think they were "too far gone" to be saved before swinggcats material ever found them. LOL.


In short, I think there is a lot of great stuff out there just always assume that everything is done in a postive light and you'll come off for the better.
 

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donovan said:
I've reviewed alot of his material and have a senior coach of his named Sean, writing a regular column on my blog.

I would say... depends on what you're looking for.

I recommend for pickup... Mystery.

I recommend for overall game... David D.

I recommend for a unique blend of pickup/overall game... Lance and Pickup101.

I recommend for overall pickup and life success... Stephen Nash.

I've met all of those guys, spare David D. I would say, they're all pros, very confident and obviously successful with women. You can't go wrong with most. (Although if you don't have an outcome... then you'll be wasting your time)

I say, it depends on what you're outcome is.... if you want to have sex with random girls... Mystery. Want relationships and a natural, confident lifestyle? Stephen Nash. Like a blend that will give you some elements of both? Pickup101

Good luck. If you have questions, I've looked at pretty much all of Lance's material, glad to help.
Thanks for your recomendations Donovan. I really appreciate it!

I have David D's material and some of Mysteries (just got them).

I never heard of Stephen Nash though.
I think I need everyting I can get my hands on. I think I go for the Stepehen Nash stuff becuase I'm not really into the one night stand stuff. I tend to want a medium term relationships or something on that line.

From the very little of Lance Mason I have seen he seems to be very good with the kino demonstrations with living models.
 

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everywomanshero said:
The thing I like about Lance is that he is very positive and cautious about what he publishes. If someone has a tendency to be negative, I think his materials will have a big boost for them.

With Mystery Method as a new student you have to remember that Mystery has an amazing a positive vibe. There are some real weirdos out there who take his ideas and make them negative... like they have gotten the idea that Mystery acts 'mean and nasty' to chicks and that makes them comply when they act *****y. I guess it stems from an overarching misinterpretation of certain disqualifiers.

Same with Swinggcat, his material is great, but there are certain parts that some guys have perceived to mean that being rude or arrogant will make hawtees want them. I have not seen the guys who perceive things this way to have any real success with women. I think they were "too far gone" to be saved before swinggcats material ever found them. LOL.


In short, I think there is a lot of great stuff out there just always assume that everything is done in a postive light and you'll come off for the better.
Thanks Everywomanshero! I appreciate your input!

Both you guys are great!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lance and Pickup101

I've reviewed alot of his material and have a senior coach of his named Sean, writing a regular column on my blog.

I would say... depends on what you're looking for.

I recommend for pickup... Mystery.

I recommend for overall game... David D.

I recommend for a unique blend of pickup/overall game... Lance and Pickup101.

I recommend for overall pickup and life success... Stephen Nash.

I've met all of those guys, spare David D. I would say, they're all pros, very confident and obviously successful with women. You can't go wrong with most. (Although if you don't have an outcome... then you'll be wasting your time)

I say, it depends on what you're outcome is.... if you want to have sex with random girls... Mystery. Want relationships and a natural, confident lifestyle? Stephen Nash. Like a blend that will give you some elements of both? Pickup101

Good luck. If you have questions, I've looked at pretty much all of Lance's material, glad to help.
some new names(from 2006) to research
 
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