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I think Bible is sitting there WITH his woman when they made this thread, and are now probably laughing at us for believing it.
So it turns out she left him right after that fight over the flat tire. They've been together since they were 15. She brought a female friend over yesterday to move her stuff out. She deactivated her facebook page; his has a post about how whiskey isn't killing the pain.Bible_Belt said:My 21 y/o cousin lives across the street from me. He got married last summer to his only girlfriend ever, dated since high school and lived together the past three years. She's a beautiful blonde, maybe not the brightest light on the tree, but she loves him. They were fighting today. He was screaming at her in the front yard. She's a horrible driver and had just had another flat tire. He kept calling her "stupid" and "dumbass." I kept thinking, "even if she is stupid, calling her that is not helping your cause."
I remember his father and mother (my aunt & uncle) fighting exactly the same way at that age. They stuck out marriage for a long time, but she eventually left him, and within a few years, he killed himself with a pill overdose. He couldn't stand to be alone, so he would pick up any ghetto pillhead who would talk to him. It was some skank's morphine that killed him.
I had a friend like that, and I just used a transitional way in shaming him that some conservative societies use and it worked with him .his has a post about how whiskey isn't killing the pain.
Before you were saying that it would be safe to impregnate this girl, because she makes all the money, and therefore you wouldn't have to pay any child support. Now you're saying she's broke. I wouldn't risk having a child with this woman for any amount of money. Truth is stranger than fiction, boys.Bible_Belt said:Anyway, about the money issue, to me the real problem is that she is just bad with money. I filed a bankruptcy for her when we got together, getting her out of $40k in credit card debt. She only has one low-limit card now. Her car got repo'd once while we were living together. They tried to take it again months later, so I just paid off the last $700 of the loan for her. She didn't pay rent for the last two years of living with me. I mention these things because each of our respective families seems to think that I am a deadbeat and a financial drain on her. I don't take pleasure in her being broke, but I like seeing that it isn't because of me.
People often fail to follow the advice that they give to others. They can be objective when looking at another man's situation from an outsider's perspective, but when it comes to their own issues, emotions cloud their judgment. That is why lawyers usually hire other lawyers to represent them when they get sued. Ditto with shrinks seeking counseling from other shrinks.zekko said:Before you were saying that it would be safe to impregnate this girl, because she makes all the money, and therefore you wouldn't have to pay any child support. Now you're saying she's broke. I wouldn't risk having a child with this woman for any amount of money. Truth is stranger than fiction, boys.
Okay, where is the real Bible Belt, and what have you done with him?
So she's fat, bad with money, filed for bankruptcy and got her car repo'd, past her prime reproductive years and materialistic. Sounds like you got a real winner there.Bible_Belt said:This piece of sh!t laptop I'm typing on has windows 7. I just had a long post typed out and without touching a key, it closed the browser window and deleted my post so that it could do an automatic windows update. Fvck you, windows 7. Every version of windows since XP has been sh!ttier than the last.
I don't know how much weight she gained exactly. It's not like I weigh her. My perception depends on the mod I'm in. Plus, almost all of it goes to G-cup t!ts and ass. The last girl I fvcked besides her had D-cup boobs, and they actually seemed kind of small. Any girl with t!ts like that is going to get a lot of attention from guys. She has some redneck cretin neighbors who have discovered the joy of watching her mow her yard. Last time they invited friends over for the show. I keep my laughter to myself.
Speaking of keeping my laughter to myself, the reason she chose the rental she's in now is that it has a fenced backyard for her dogs. But since she's a woman, she didn't actually go look at the fence, which is apparently full of holes. She has had to chase her dogs across town a half-dozen times. Taking care of those dogs and fixing fences had always been my job. Now that she is going it alone, she has to do everything for herself. I don't openly laugh about it, but I can't deny I get a kick out of her struggles with living alone.
Anyway, about the money issue, to me the real problem is that she is just bad with money. I filed a bankruptcy for her when we got together, getting her out of $40k in credit card debt. She only has one low-limit card now. Her car got repo'd once while we were living together. They tried to take it again months later, so I just paid off the last $700 of the loan for her. She didn't pay rent for the last two years of living with me. I mention these things because each of our respective families seems to think that I am a deadbeat and a financial drain on her. I don't take pleasure in her being broke, but I like seeing that it isn't because of me.
Shopping is another issue. I have about three things I need to be happy; with her it's closer to 103. I always felt that she would spend all of her money on stupid sh!t I didn't want, and then blame me for being broke, or at least resent me for it. She would also tell me she wanted to go out to dinner because she just got paid, but then later in the week would be upset that she was broke. That was part of the issue with me not wanting to go out as much, which made me seem anti-social to her. I would save my money like a miser, because I expected us to have to use it for some financial emergency - like paying off her car before it gets repo'd.
Money, like housework, is the fastest issue to resolve itself after cohabitation ends, simply because there is no one else to blame. That's one of the traps of a close relationship. It's always easy to blame the other half for your own problems.
No, it does not help. By now, isn't it obvious to you guys that you can't reach through to Bible's head?Mauser96 said:Bible, there are a few things adding up here that don't make sense, and I am afraid you are wearing blinders.
I just re-read a couple of your posts - one of them you said that you are not the one getting trapped, because she makes all the money. Go back and read it, it was page 6 or 7. Yet now you say she has been cutting her own hair the past year because she is broke.
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You said she gained 80 pounds, now you say 40 - I understand you were angry when you said 80, so maybe exaggerated.
But here is one, a direct quote from you "My issue is that 40 is like a reproductive wall for a woman. Conception is possible, but it's really better to not even try. By age forty, 90% of a woman's remaining eggs will contain a genetic defect, most of which will cause miscarriage. She had a miscarriage at age 21 and never has had a child. And I've never knocked anyone up. The odds of it happening seem slim."
Yet NOW you say "At some point I will knock her up and buy her a ring, but that may take a while."
I just fear you are twisting reality to suit your needs at the moment, mand that is dangerous for you.
Hope this helps
Very few people are posting in this thread out of a hatred for women. The vast majority see a man making an obvious mistake, one that has been repeated countless times by untold numbers of men, and are simply trying to save another man from suffering the same fate.Bible_Belt said:Hating women and being bitter is just as much of a blue pill as being AFC.
I agree about the blue pill, but to me this isn't about hating women.Bible_Belt said:Hating women and being bitter is just as much of a blue pill as being AFC.