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Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 15, 2017
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- 43
I have to admit this is the first time I've ever experienced a girl ghosting me like this.
It's one thing if we had a major fight we it was kind of mutual and she texted me a few times and asked to see me once. Granted I might've got a little AFC but I wasn't begging or anything just said I missed her and didn't want to lose her.
Obviously by saying that I gave her the upper hand but I don't get why she wouldn't just say hey.. it's not going to work out best of luck ect.
I did tell her to take her time and think about things and we can talk in the
Future if you want but still I don't get the radio silence.
Do I tack her lack of communication as an indicator that she had no interest in me. Is she shagging up with another guy and just wants to avoid me?
Obviously I can't reach out but don't get why she would ask to meet up and then text a couple times and the ghost without telling m it's over
So I tell her it's done so at least I have peace of mind or just stay no contact. Obviously she is practising no contact
Need some help form the gurus here
If you want to talk to her, call her and tell her that and have a time and location in mind. No more texts.
If you are overly anxious thinking about this, then you are not in a position to dominate her in the face to face.
Were I you, I would give it 60 days of NC, and I would block her during this time. What will happen when you block her is you will allow yourself to focus on you and improve yourself.
She said she feels lost. Only you can decide if she's worth suffering for, but it will cause you real pain if you hang on with this girl.