iqqi
Master Don Juan
Hey Rosemarie.Rosemarie said:Hey Iqqi,
I just thought of another way to look at this. See if you can think of a single situation in which this woman's behavior would be appropriate. Under what circumstances would you encourage it?
If the answer is none, then you've answered your own question.
Good luck, and best wishes to you.
I think that a person is entitled to a mistake or two. I think she acted that way out of historical insecurities. And that she is growing. I see her make better decisions every day. I see her confidence growing.
I think there are two kinds of confidence. The ****y hurtful competitive kind that is really used to mask insecurity, and the true kind that comes from within, and from knowing oneself. I think that a person like her walks both lines when they start growing, confusing the two, and THAT is the issue here. That inner struggle.
I don't think she did that out of purposeful competitiveness towards me.
I am very sure that she values my friendship, and truly cares about ME.
Because she is still at a point that is volatile and shifty, I will be more careful in the situations I find myself in, with her around.