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Bulls.hit.poohead said:
And can't you see the guy is just making observations...ones that I would have to largely agree with.
You just sound immature and insecure...hey that rhymes!!
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And can't you see the guy is just making observations...ones that I would have to largely agree with.
You just sound immature and insecure...hey that rhymes!!
Rudy_TubeSteak
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My field reports of getting the girls is absolutely useless to the asian guys here on this thread. It's no different to other field reports that were succesful.
I've already given tips and advice on how to get over that racial insecurity. Now try it.
White girls arent receptive to the asian kids (Thread posters)here because they can sense that your frame is weak and your identity in tatters. Because you instantly saw the white girl as more superior that your typical ling ling. You instantly appeared weaker to the girl and you would have conveyed that easily. You became an imported social monkey.
Embrace your Race, Adapt where you Crap. Easy as that
I've already given tips and advice on how to get over that racial insecurity. Now try it.
White girls arent receptive to the asian kids (Thread posters)here because they can sense that your frame is weak and your identity in tatters. Because you instantly saw the white girl as more superior that your typical ling ling. You instantly appeared weaker to the girl and you would have conveyed that easily. You became an imported social monkey.
Embrace your Race, Adapt where you Crap. Easy as that
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Personally, I think you guys are lame, sitting around and blaming your entire situation on your race.poohead said:
1) In all likelihood, it is NOT about your race, but your loser attitude, which is displayed when you sit around and blame your life circumstances on something like your race
BUT
2) For the sake of argument, let's say your sad theory was correct. There is absolutely no point in sitting around and *****ing about it. But your sad theory is barely, if at all applicable to the real world.
Rudy_TubeSteak
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dynamicallyidle, I am not blaming it on race.....lol I am lucky because of it 
But yes you are absolutely right...it is their loser attitude. Shame on these so-called asians....If I see one I will smash a ricecooker on their heads faster than a discount at the Mall of Asia.
You can be the best reciter of the Dj bible or what ever assistance you may have but you must get over this racial and loser attitude FIRST AND FAST.
Your race is your identity so strengthen it and love it. The first tree to fall in a storm is the one with shallow roots.
To get over your race issues is to face it head on and embrace it.
But yes you are absolutely right...it is their loser attitude. Shame on these so-called asians....If I see one I will smash a ricecooker on their heads faster than a discount at the Mall of Asia.
You can be the best reciter of the Dj bible or what ever assistance you may have but you must get over this racial and loser attitude FIRST AND FAST.
Your race is your identity so strengthen it and love it. The first tree to fall in a storm is the one with shallow roots.
To get over your race issues is to face it head on and embrace it.
Flabbergasped?
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I have to agree with Hyori Lee on one thing. Prejudice is a big part of it.
The stereotypical asian asexual nerd is so prevalent that its hard to break out of that mold. The asian guy has to be pretty white washed for him to go toe-to-toe with the typical white guy pulling white chicks.
However, this doesn't mean a loss of cultural identity. One of the senior members in my fraternity is this guy from Hong Kong. Wears abercrombie, dresses hella white, chugs beers like any football player, and still speaks fluent chinese. Pulls white chicks, almost exclusively in fact, like you wouldn't believe.
The solution is to disregard race altogether, because it just limits you. I'm black (uh oh, here comes the azn vs black flames, I'm sorry for opening pandora's box), and I think asian girls are really attractive. However, there's usually a big divide between asians and blacks in general, regardless of gender. At first, I always used the race issue to find a reason to not approach, or to be generally uncomfortable, but as I dealt with asian chicks more, I learned to treat them like any other woman. They really aren't any different.
That isn't to say prejudice isn't there. Most asian guys are still put into the "nerd Starcraft player" category, but I don't think its fair to say that asian guys are genetically predisposed to not be able to pull white chicks, especially since there are short and skinny hispanic guys who pull hot white chicks like mad, short and skinny black guys (yes, those exist) that pull hot white chicks like mad, etc. I will admit though, many of them are pretty white-washed.
The stereotypical asian asexual nerd is so prevalent that its hard to break out of that mold. The asian guy has to be pretty white washed for him to go toe-to-toe with the typical white guy pulling white chicks.
However, this doesn't mean a loss of cultural identity. One of the senior members in my fraternity is this guy from Hong Kong. Wears abercrombie, dresses hella white, chugs beers like any football player, and still speaks fluent chinese. Pulls white chicks, almost exclusively in fact, like you wouldn't believe.
The solution is to disregard race altogether, because it just limits you. I'm black (uh oh, here comes the azn vs black flames, I'm sorry for opening pandora's box), and I think asian girls are really attractive. However, there's usually a big divide between asians and blacks in general, regardless of gender. At first, I always used the race issue to find a reason to not approach, or to be generally uncomfortable, but as I dealt with asian chicks more, I learned to treat them like any other woman. They really aren't any different.
That isn't to say prejudice isn't there. Most asian guys are still put into the "nerd Starcraft player" category, but I don't think its fair to say that asian guys are genetically predisposed to not be able to pull white chicks, especially since there are short and skinny hispanic guys who pull hot white chicks like mad, short and skinny black guys (yes, those exist) that pull hot white chicks like mad, etc. I will admit though, many of them are pretty white-washed.
Rudy_TubeSteak
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I aint white washed...I refused to be...I can adapt to any environment but you can bet that I keep my roots firm and strong. I repeat, I aint white-washed but I can still white girls constantly.
You know what, I could be the first person to ever say this but:
PREJUDICE IS ONE BIG F*CKIN SH*T TEST!!!!!
Hell I came to Australia not speaking a word of english. I was a very tiny, skinny slanty eyed boy who dreamt of becoming a maths genius and be an engineer!!!!Half Asians are jealous that I can speak fluent filipino still. And eat spam and rice.
I broke the mold...Me, you and other coloured bastards are made of the same sh*t...You should be able to do the same.
You know what, I could be the first person to ever say this but:
PREJUDICE IS ONE BIG F*CKIN SH*T TEST!!!!!
Hell I came to Australia not speaking a word of english. I was a very tiny, skinny slanty eyed boy who dreamt of becoming a maths genius and be an engineer!!!!Half Asians are jealous that I can speak fluent filipino still. And eat spam and rice.
I broke the mold...Me, you and other coloured bastards are made of the same sh*t...You should be able to do the same.
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This isn't about NOT breaking the mold.
It's about acknowledging that prejudice exists, and acting accordingly.
I'm the most "un-black" person you can think of. I listen to classical almost exclusively. Born in Europe, etc.
Most of the time, when I open a 3-set of Asian chicks, they start the cold-shouldering, but once I open my mouth, its all smooth-sailing from there. Sure, I could have turned around when I saw them being unreceptive because of race, but like Tubesteak said, it's a ****-test, and like all tests, you overcome it. We aren't asking you to climb the Great Wall of China, just to take the prejudice and not let it affect you.
You can't tell me there's more white vs. asian prejudice than asian vs. black prejudice. I still have asian friends whose moms hide the silverware when I go over to their house, and these are mothers that know I'm in university. I just serenade the old chinese lady with politeness and general pleasantness, and they generally stop being so anal.
It's about acknowledging that prejudice exists, and acting accordingly.
I'm the most "un-black" person you can think of. I listen to classical almost exclusively. Born in Europe, etc.
Most of the time, when I open a 3-set of Asian chicks, they start the cold-shouldering, but once I open my mouth, its all smooth-sailing from there. Sure, I could have turned around when I saw them being unreceptive because of race, but like Tubesteak said, it's a ****-test, and like all tests, you overcome it. We aren't asking you to climb the Great Wall of China, just to take the prejudice and not let it affect you.
You can't tell me there's more white vs. asian prejudice than asian vs. black prejudice. I still have asian friends whose moms hide the silverware when I go over to their house, and these are mothers that know I'm in university. I just serenade the old chinese lady with politeness and general pleasantness, and they generally stop being so anal.
Rudy_TubeSteak
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Hahaha ya black bastard thats hilarious...I constantly have to defend my black mates here because of the of asian vs black prejudice. My uncle once said he would uppercut his own sister if she married a black dude...I was angry at him and told he is stupid and immature for saying that. He says that blacks are suppose to be abusive and uneducate. I told him how the f*ck did he afford the money to come to this trip and how the hell did he manage to keep the big group of people always smiling. But as far as prejudices go....it is very hard to overcome but when you do, you get a sense of accomplishment and your racial identity becomes stronger and stronger. Do it.
Hey Flab, you know what is funny? I am the only filipino security guy in an ALL BLACK security firm (exclusive for only indigenous lads,which I find to be glorified racism IMO)...I am 5'6 and they are mostly around 6'4. Hows that for sticking out like dog's balls. Any insecurity and doubt on the line must be banished, I have no choice, otherwise I am deadmeat.
Hey Flab, you know what is funny? I am the only filipino security guy in an ALL BLACK security firm (exclusive for only indigenous lads,which I find to be glorified racism IMO)...I am 5'6 and they are mostly around 6'4. Hows that for sticking out like dog's balls. Any insecurity and doubt on the line must be banished, I have no choice, otherwise I am deadmeat.
Rudy_TubeSteak
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http://www.myspace.com/25381815
this is my profile...it is not finished yet I just started it..but you have a look...Do i look like I gave a f*ck about racial insecurity.
this is my profile...it is not finished yet I just started it..but you have a look...Do i look like I gave a f*ck about racial insecurity.
AsianPlayboy is not a fake.
However, he and most of the other good Asian PUAs are basically either tall and/or good-looking "for an Asian." "Good-looking" meaning they have more angular, finer features, maybe rounder eyes too ("Whiter"-looking if you want to call it that). And of course, they have Game too...or live outside the US where they don't need it as much.
If you look like William Hung (short with a round, flat face and really slanted eyes), you are honestly going to be at the bottom of the sexual food chain in this country. You might get the rare girl with a fetish for that, possibly - but otherwise, you are pretty much screwed lookswise with the general population.
Hey, who said life was fair? You better compensate like Steven Spielberg by attaining massive power or something...
However, he and most of the other good Asian PUAs are basically either tall and/or good-looking "for an Asian." "Good-looking" meaning they have more angular, finer features, maybe rounder eyes too ("Whiter"-looking if you want to call it that). And of course, they have Game too...or live outside the US where they don't need it as much.
If you look like William Hung (short with a round, flat face and really slanted eyes), you are honestly going to be at the bottom of the sexual food chain in this country. You might get the rare girl with a fetish for that, possibly - but otherwise, you are pretty much screwed lookswise with the general population.
Hey, who said life was fair? You better compensate like Steven Spielberg by attaining massive power or something...
The recent wave of immigrants from Asia since the 60s is not representative of Asians as a whole - but the NERDS of Asia who came here on scholarships and stuff. Brain drain. Really smart guys...but often runts with ZERO sense of style or Game. Basically, the AFC Beta male providers of Asia.krayon said:
The more athletic, studlier Alpha males of Asia...generally stayed there.
That's why most Asian jocks in pro-sports here are not Asian-American. but from the mainland. The bigger Asian stud pool is back in Asia.
Rudy_TubeSteak
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Wayword you are absolutely right. I was about to say the same.
And you know what...when I was in Asia the only white people I saw were not of true representative of their nations. Same sh*t different people.
I am short, brown, sexy slanty eyes...I love it...I would love to be more muscular though so I can do more things. I never had good game or good looks to start with....but you can pretty much call me a "REFINED ASIAN"
Go on...go brother...Become a REFINED ASIAN.
And you know what...when I was in Asia the only white people I saw were not of true representative of their nations. Same sh*t different people.
I am short, brown, sexy slanty eyes...I love it...I would love to be more muscular though so I can do more things. I never had good game or good looks to start with....but you can pretty much call me a "REFINED ASIAN"
Go on...go brother...Become a REFINED ASIAN.
I know there is a lot of topics being discussed here, but this is the only advice I feel I can give.
Don't care about being 'white-washed' or whatever washed. Do whatever you want. Trying to fit a certain image is only going to limit you at the end. I choose certain clothing cause I feel it looks good, that is all. People speak of pride and such, but pride is really one of the things that is causing all of these problems. Just focus on who you want yourself to be. If people can't accept that, then keep going forward in your life and don't look back.
Don't care about being 'white-washed' or whatever washed. Do whatever you want. Trying to fit a certain image is only going to limit you at the end. I choose certain clothing cause I feel it looks good, that is all. People speak of pride and such, but pride is really one of the things that is causing all of these problems. Just focus on who you want yourself to be. If people can't accept that, then keep going forward in your life and don't look back.
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so what if i'm fairly tall (5'10) and i'm physically strong, (i weigh 170, and going up)'
white girls scare me but there is an appeal in white girls taht i just don't see in asian girls.
white girls scare me but there is an appeal in white girls taht i just don't see in asian girls.
Delta
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probably cuz your mom is asian....
i think it's less about genetics (the minute you compare a taller stronger asian guy to a shorter weaker white guy [seriously, you see this all the time]) that argument breaks down.
i think it has more to do with social programming. white women, when they fantasize about their partner, simply do not have an asian guy in that picture. just like with a lot of asian guys, when THEY fantasize about their sex kitten don't fantasize about black chicks. this thread isn't about how asian guys can get black chicks right? is there anything wrong with that?
no.
see, the very fact that asian guys are fixating on white chicks shows that there is a programmed bias even in asian guys! so can you be surprised that it exists in white chicks?
also, the MEDIA probably makes white chicks more desirable and asian males less... most of the porn that i've ever seen in my life features white chicks. most of the super models i know of and cover girls and celebrities are white chicks.
that does something to program the "white chick" as being a sex object.
media hardly EVER portrays the asian male as being a sexual object. not at all because they don't deserve to be... it's just the way that it is.
asians are good for kungfu, mathematics and computer programming. it is a stereotype but it exists. you don't think of asian men and sex.
finally, culturally, most asian societies are based on reserve and humility and self effacing behavior, politeness, group harmony, etc.... alas, these are not "masculine" qualities.
so for asian guys, playing the DJ game may prove to be a HARDER GAME than it is for others if you're in anglo society....
just my thoughts.
delta
i think it's less about genetics (the minute you compare a taller stronger asian guy to a shorter weaker white guy [seriously, you see this all the time]) that argument breaks down.
i think it has more to do with social programming. white women, when they fantasize about their partner, simply do not have an asian guy in that picture. just like with a lot of asian guys, when THEY fantasize about their sex kitten don't fantasize about black chicks. this thread isn't about how asian guys can get black chicks right? is there anything wrong with that?
no.
see, the very fact that asian guys are fixating on white chicks shows that there is a programmed bias even in asian guys! so can you be surprised that it exists in white chicks?
also, the MEDIA probably makes white chicks more desirable and asian males less... most of the porn that i've ever seen in my life features white chicks. most of the super models i know of and cover girls and celebrities are white chicks.
that does something to program the "white chick" as being a sex object.
media hardly EVER portrays the asian male as being a sexual object. not at all because they don't deserve to be... it's just the way that it is.
asians are good for kungfu, mathematics and computer programming. it is a stereotype but it exists. you don't think of asian men and sex.
finally, culturally, most asian societies are based on reserve and humility and self effacing behavior, politeness, group harmony, etc.... alas, these are not "masculine" qualities.
so for asian guys, playing the DJ game may prove to be a HARDER GAME than it is for others if you're in anglo society....
just my thoughts.
delta
Rudy_TubeSteak
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This reminds me of AFC who whinge about being virgins...but the moment they do lose it....they realise the chase wasn't that big of a deal in the first place.
Once you get your first white girl, was it such a big deal at all?
Once you get your first white girl, was it such a big deal at all?
This thread doesn't make any sense. I feel that many guys on this thread are very insecure. When trying to game woman the last thing you should think about is race. Woman are all the same. White, asian ,black, hispanic.
Usually people of the same race want to be with others of the same race. Asian girls prefer asian guy, white girls prefer white guy, black girls prefer black guy, hispanic girls prefer hispanic guy. That doesn't mean that you can't break through that barrier.
I have banged asian,white, hispanic,indian girls, and I am white. I never once thought about there race when gaming them.
To the asian guys. If you want to bang white girls you can bang them. Just bust solid game. It can even be to your advantage to be different. I know 2 asian guys that are going out with Hb7 and Hb8 white girls.
Remember guys pvssy is pvssy. Its all the same. Be confident around girls no matter there race and you will have success.
Usually people of the same race want to be with others of the same race. Asian girls prefer asian guy, white girls prefer white guy, black girls prefer black guy, hispanic girls prefer hispanic guy. That doesn't mean that you can't break through that barrier.
I have banged asian,white, hispanic,indian girls, and I am white. I never once thought about there race when gaming them.
To the asian guys. If you want to bang white girls you can bang them. Just bust solid game. It can even be to your advantage to be different. I know 2 asian guys that are going out with Hb7 and Hb8 white girls.
Remember guys pvssy is pvssy. Its all the same. Be confident around girls no matter there race and you will have success.
Delta
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that's naive lookyoung...
extremely.
there are any number of race combinations (just run through all possible combinations in your head) that will help or hurt.
it is not THE FACTOR and there are all kinds of exceptions.
but just like clothing, car, height, weight, looks - it is A factor.
denying it is just pointless. CONFIDENCE is not everything.
besides, just think - race has socio-economic ramifications because society is not level or fair. it AFFECTS (if not determines) social status. we live with it and guess what, women are HIGHLY aware of anything related to status. RIGHT? so it follows....
delta
extremely.
there are any number of race combinations (just run through all possible combinations in your head) that will help or hurt.
it is not THE FACTOR and there are all kinds of exceptions.
but just like clothing, car, height, weight, looks - it is A factor.
denying it is just pointless. CONFIDENCE is not everything.
besides, just think - race has socio-economic ramifications because society is not level or fair. it AFFECTS (if not determines) social status. we live with it and guess what, women are HIGHLY aware of anything related to status. RIGHT? so it follows....
delta
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