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    Possibly dating a nympho

    I am currently living in Lima, Peru. I have been going out with this girl for a bit more than two weeks. Really nice girl, great upbeat personality, same age as me, still lives with her parents (in Peru it's normal). So we started out as friends actually, since we have similar hobbies and went...
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    Women call me "cold".

    I had these two women call me "frío" in Spanish in the last few weeks. They are both latinas, and "frío" really translates to cold or aloof. What's up with that? How do I respond to this? I am really not all that interested in these two, but one (my former plate) seems to dig it.
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    Tinder fat date

    I matched up with what seemed to be a very good-looking woman. So I come to meet her, she calls me and tells me where she is. I went up right next to "her" looking around not recognizing the woman in the pic because she is about 40lbs heavier. Like a little bear. She stands right there doesn't...
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    Met a textbook crazy woman

    Yesterday I met this crazy 23 old woman off tinder. This gotta be the one that checks every god damn crazy atribute in the book! We are talking, 2 cats and wanting more cats, child-like obsession with the cats, is an "actress", lives of parents credit card, has a drug and alcohol problem, is a...
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    Valentine's Day protocol

    Its my 3rd date with this chick. I ve done everything except actual penetration. We happen to have a date on Valentine's Day and I was looking for some ideas, because I better be getting laid, otherwise I ll drop her. I got wine at my place, and normally it would just be me asking her to come...
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    Vacation flings worth pursuing?

    I am wondering if anybody here ever had a vacation romance that developed into something more. A month ago I went to Lima, partied hard, banged a bunch of Peruvian women. It is a ****-hole of a country, but I somehow managed to have a great time over there. I speak spanish as well. The women are...
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    Drunk women

    Does anyone else find themselves put off by women that literally have a stupor brought on by alcohol? I don't know what to do with them. I could grab their tits and they would not care.
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    Cougars go maternal on me

    Is it common for mature women to be affectionate in a kind of motherly way? They are old enough to be my mom, but it somewhat creeps me out at times. I am getting all flirty and sexual, and here they are grabbing my cheek or whatnot. One even told me that I was her "baby". Is it sexual or not...
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    Unfair 'play fighting'

    This chick at work is play fighting with me. The problem is that she punches way to hard for a person that is half my size. One time I even wanted to slap her back real hard. What's that all about? it's at work, so I can't really grab her as$ and give it a good spanking.
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    Escalation problem

    Lately I ve noticed that I am great at amping up the initial attraction phase but somehow fail to properly escalate all the way to sex with many women. What am I missing in my game? Comfort building? Or there is just really something seriously flawed in the way I act?
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    DJ skills and landing better jobs

    Do you guys consider DJ skills useful in landing a better job or advancing your career? I mean the actual part of being "smooth", not being on top things.
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    Interesting Facebook Phenomena

    I have a POV camera and I took it sky diving with me the other day. Day later I post a youtube link to the video that I made. And guess what, pretty much everyone on facebook watched it, but there are hardly any comments. BUT if I post some stupid picture of a funny masturbating cat I get 10 or...
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    When a married woman mentions husband....

    I already know that they are in fact taken, but they put a strategical emphasis on it: e. i. "my husband does it too", etc. What are they communicating across apart from them signaling their unavailability in response to a sexual threat?
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    Getting laid in Cuba?

    Planning a vacation that includes Cuba. I visited Cuba before as a kid and am kinda familiar with a communist state, but could somebody give me a first hand account on getting laid with locals there? No hookers off course, unless they are free ; ) P.S. And no jokes please as well...
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    Women troll me for attention.

    Is it normal or I am doing something wrong? I don't give it up all that easy.:confused: perhaps they know that they can get it out of me either through childish behavior or putting in a little bit of work ( wh*re themselves out in a way). Like a validation trap?
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    Possibly asexual woman?

    I am dealing with this peculiar case strictly concerning sexuality. There is this woman - early 20s, cute - seems sexually repressed or asexual to some degree - doesnt look masculine, but I can sense this weird boyish vibe about her - surrounds herself with women and actually prefers their...
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    Awkwardness after asking em out

    I find that most women can not really deal with the awkwardness of having rejected your advances, thus they avoid contact with you and any confrontation. There are only a few of cool ones that are OK with it. I used to be that way, but I act normally around them as nothing ever happened - no...
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    May ethnicity gets on the way

    I have an eastern european background and do have an accent. Most people that I meet are not able to tell where I am from and are rather intrigued at first, but they eventually want to find out. And my name is foreign as well. I basically make people guess and simply don't tell them if they...
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    Really insecure women-give up on em'?

    I honestly believe that most women who are not attached to a man in some way are insecure and I can accept their "feminine insecurities", but it seems that I keep running into ones with a major personality fault somewhere, partly due to age as well, e.i. passive-aggressive, low self-esteem, AWs...
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    attraction ≠ interest

    Attraction is basically a sexual feeling you get when you want to put your pee-pee in the vajayjay, and the other way around for a woman. YET, it doesnt mean interest. (not sexual interest). I think we should differentiate between the two. I ve run into situations where I would be...
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