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    Lay Report: Italian 7 (daytime)

    My buddy and I were walking across Koh Phi Phi island, which is in the South West of Thailand not too far from Phuket. Tonnes of western people there so very target rich. We were heading to a beach, but after about 10 minutes of walking my friend says he feels rough and wants to turn back go to...
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    are you a keyboard jocky?

    im gonna be the first to admit it, i am definately what you would call a keyboard jocky. The lifestyle i have created myself means that i very rarely meet new people as im in the same social spots every week because thats where the small amount of proper friends i have hang out. So approaching...
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    other males hitting on your HB 9 gf

    so you take your hot gf out to a bar with you, and at some stage you leave her side and go chat to some of your friends. whilst this is happening, she has men approaching and talking to her. without seeming needy and insecure, whats the best way to deal with this?
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    do you have a 6 pack?

    since january ive been spending 20 minutes a day trying to get a six pack and ive had one for about a month now. im just wondering what proportion of men have them. if the figure in the poll turns out low then its going to show that a six pack is one more thing that makes you stand out from...
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    You don't need to do everything right

    When I go out and I am chatting to a girl, my brain takes the view that everything that I do must create attraction...which is actually far from the reality. You must do SOME things that are attractive, but if you do or say something AFC there is no worry about the girl not liking you if you...
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    got myself wayy pissed up tonight

    life seems hard to cope with at the moment. im just holding out for uni in october. all the people i see are people that remind me of my old AFC self because im stuck in the same old town where ive known everyone ages. works ok but has very little social element and friday nights are my only...
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    about girls sitting on your lap

    1. Are girls who sit on your lap always interested? 2. If you get a hard on while a girl is sitting on your lap (a girl who you have not been getting with) and she feels it poking her will she be freaked out or will she quite like it? considering that it was her choice to sit on your lap in...
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    shaking hands with women???

    when you first meet them? to me it seems to be a man thing shaking hands... and if you do shake hands with a girl do you shake with abit of force like you do with your bro's?
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    i think i just did good ;)

    hb 9 that drops my sister off from her horse riding pulls into our drive and lets my sis out the car. i stroll up to the car, open the door and say "hey girl racer" shes like hey blablabla but shes visibly impressed by the way i thought i was high enough value to just get in her car without...
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    keep your room tidy!!!

    by freak randomness i had a HB 9.5 in my room today unfortunately not because im getting physical with her! She went up to my bedroom and looked inside and to be honest it is a total mess! Dirty socks and clothes everywhere..she was visibly turned off by it. I felt so so so arkward because i...
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    the number of AFC's around...

    It amazes me! My mums friend's daughter came over today and was bragging about how she spent £2 on a night out last night. She said if she smiles at a guy, shes guarenteed a drink out of him. This made me realise..do not underestimate the power of what you read on here. Its damn good...
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    I failed to act, because I AM SCARED

    Just been out tonight and saw a HB8 who is back from uni who i havent seen for ages. Since i was in school with her my confidence and dress sense and overall wellbeing has come on leaps and bounds..i think she was abit thrown by how much i have improved myself. Things were going well..she was...
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    approaching when your friends can see you

    i get so bothered by the fact that my friends might be watching me approach a hb. dont really know why?!
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    what should one do, when...

    a woman comes and sits on your lap with her back to you in a social interaction and is blocking you out of the interaction. she is not doing this on purpose. its kind of rude to tell them to get off if you like them and they might take it as a sign of your disinterest. what ya think fellas?!
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    you need to be "good looking enough"

    And you can MAKE yourself good looking enough...anyone can. This is what I see everywhere I go...average looking blokes holding hands with model type women. With looks, its all about WHAT YOU MAKE, OF WHAT GOD HAS BLESSED YOU WITH. If you make the best of what you cannot change, then women...
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    how can I STOP CARING WHAT OTHERS THINK OF ME?!?!

    i am realising fast that this is my major problem with life in general..be it at sport, my job, talking to my friends and ofcourse at picking up hotties. I put too much value on what people think of what i say, what i do...like if i look stupid etc... Now i am constantly consciously aware...
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    my 'friend' is doing my head in

    tonight i talked to a girl who is probably an 8.5 for looks and when i went back to my friends he said that im always chatting up girls that are too good for me...this is just one example but he moans and whines and brings my mood down on the rare occasions that i actually feel quite happy out...
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    cant enjoy myself in bars and clubs

    i dont really know whats wrong i guess thats why i am asking you guys. when i go out with friends (the few that i have right now) i am very unrelaxed and tensed up. i mostly find that i have to fake my smiles. i always find myself standing in the room with nothing to say to anyone (especially...
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    really hard to admit, but I have a fear of sex

    thats embarrassing to admit even to people such as yourselves who i dont know and probably never will. fine on my own, but when im getting intimate with a girl, i put so much pressure and importance on "getting one up" that sometimes i cant and at best i get half way. ive had sex twice when i...
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