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    Girl who flaked on me was at a party I attended Saturday...handled it badly

    we were going to an event together - got an unenthusiastic "yes" after eight hours, and I immediately smelled a rat. she texted me Friday asking what the timeline of the event was because she "might have something else that night", and she assured me she'd get back to me later that night. she...
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    got knocked on my ass by an AMOG. what should I learn from this?

    my main virtue with dating is that I have a lot of gall and go after women that appear to be out of my league. chumps with no self-confidence look at me like I'm a ladies' man, but my kryptonite is being around actual alphas. I'm in a political org on campus - it almost goes without saying...
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    Is sour grapes a bad thing to do when a girl has rejected you?

    Last night, I was out with a don juan fraternity brother of mine...he's got a serious girlfriend now and women are just drawn to him, which makes him one of the best wingmen I know today. He's always been great advice, since he doesn't think about girls...he just goes out and does it. Last...
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    Good friend of mine was a very introverted Don Juan. is this rare?

    He was a Brazilian - we'll call him T. he didn't have the cliched bronzed physique and was a little doughy, but women absolutely LOVED him, and he was the kind of guy who you wanted around you, since he was extremely friendly. He was "friends" with half of the sexy girls over at my...
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    Alpha males - leadership or sexual prowess/popularity?

    Got into an interesting discussion with my friend last night (we're both active in the same fraternity). I was gauging alpha males in our circle by how much the girls liked them and how popular they were. He laughed and no - an alpha male is a feared leader first, and isn't necessarily seen as...
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    Feminazis and their lapdogs coined a new phrase - the "girlfriendzone". Thoughts?

    http://jezebel.com/dudes-stop-putting-women-in-the-girlfriendzone-1508177054?utm_campaign=socialflow_jezebel_facebook&utm_source=jezebel_facebook&utm_medium=socialflow No real comment. Speaks for itself.
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    Do attractive women fish for compliments ALL the time?

    I recently expanded my Facebook to include people who weren't family. (I normally wouldn't have even had a profile, but my extended family all lives on the other side of the country and I hardly ever see them.) Added quite a few attractive female friends. one that I work updates her status at...
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    "You're the Sherminator." How does one cultivate *actual* confidence?

    My roommate's not a Don Juan by any means, but he's a very socially adept member of my circle that I'm proud to have as a confidant. He told me very something very sobering the other day when I started *****ing about girls. “MascaraSnake, you're the real life version of The Sherminator from...
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    What is the appropriate way to react when you're rejected?

    I know you want to appear unfazed, but not overly nice. here's a brief recap of last night: We talked for about 20 minutes until last call. (not much of a loss: HB6. appropriate semi-flirty discussion, and light kino.) I was getting all the signals. "I'd ask you if you wanted to get a...
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    She threw up LMR, and I failed miserably. What should I learn from this?

    This was date 2. We met at an open mic, and went barhopping...went great, rapport continued increasing, and we ended up making out before long. Fantastic date on every possible level. Soon enough, it was closing time and we both walked back to my place. (She stayed over, because she "didn't...
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    Eyeballing women. Bad? Good?

    because I just do it...I can't freaking help myself, and "use your peripherals" is a very foreign concept to me. When does eyeballing become creepy leering?
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    Women think I'm a slimeball, and this is bothering me.

    Seeing someone right now that's attractive but low quality. I'm very eager to date someone that doesn't reflect poorly on me, and it's just been one disaster after another. (Three plates in a row, to be exact.) I snatch defeat from the jaws of victory every time without fail - the women smell...
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    I have a serious chip on my shoulder, and I think women can sense this.

    I was an unpopular loner in high school who had to settle from the attention I got from fatties and ugly girls. After a while, I stopped crying about nobody liking me and I began thinking I was entitled to the hot girls that were snubbing me. Ever since I began college, I've become addicted...
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    How useful is it having a great body?

    My 2012 resolution was to work out more often, and finally get results. well, it's happened. it may be an ongoing process, but I've made significant gains with my workouts and it's obvious to most people that I've put on muscle. i've been so busy lately, though, I've neglected nightlife...
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    can a Don Juan be ultra-conservative and still manage to get laid?

    OK -- yes, guys, I'm aware that they can, but it seems that views I've developed ruffle EVERYONE'S feathers in a college environment that breeds a bunch of stuff like feminism, pro-communist rhetoric, and the like. (I'm also extremely pro-military due to having been raised by an Army colonel...
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    Can one survive in this day and age without a cell phone?

    I was watching Goodfellas the other day, and I was intrigued by the behavior of one of the mob bosses -- he refused to own a phone, and there were men in his circle that ran messages back and forth to him as their only job. If that slowed things down, so be it -- he only wanted to take messages...
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    so there's this girl at my work I like...no clue how to say hi.

    I work at a food stand and make the food, she works at a separate register fairly far from it. She never looks over towards us, but I'm finding it a little hard to stop looking towards her (this isn't constant, but she's right there, front and to the left). And she can tell I've been...
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    My dry spell has come to an end. Thank you, Plate Theory.

    I've been an AFC for a LONG time, and I got laid for the first time last summer.  It was a very random thing, went nowhere past that night, and only gave me the ability to say I wasn't a virgin without lying.Had about a straight year of almost no romantic interaction, mostly because I still had...
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    does anyone else have a bad habit of chasing girls that don't want you?

    This is a BIT of a hangup I've noticed lately. I have at least eight to ten plates spinning right now, yet I ALWAYS focus on the ones who want me the least, regardless of their looks or social prowess (obviously, the looks have to enter into it somewhat, but that's a given).
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    Tips on dating someone who's far more experienced than you.

    I've only gotten laid a handful of times by an ex, and that was around a year ago.  I'm a late bloomer...I only started pulling myself together a couple of years after high school, and really upping the ante with women when I started college at 20.I've got a hangout next week that I'm pretty...
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