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    Self-Esteem And The Myth Of Confidence

    Self-Esteem And The Myth Of Confidence Personally I think this is one of the best things I have ever wrote. When I wrote this I felt like I finally had a good understanding of confidence. I went through a LOT of stuff to come up with this, so don’t be surprised if you see something you have...
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    Transitioning To Rapport

    Hey guys, quick question. Say you are vibing with a girl, or are 'friends' with her but there's some attraction, how do you transition into deeper rapport without it seeming weird. Rapport is where the moneys at, you can really make her feel. I used to be great at this but I've lost it. I...
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    A New Paradigm On The Nice Guy

    Almost all of us used to be 'nice guys', right? And because of that, the fact that we were too 'nice' we didn't get any girls. Right? I think that's bullsh!t. Most of us were not truly nice to begin with. There's a huge difference between the nice guy (AFC) and a nice guy (the good...
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    Here's Why You "Still Can't Get Girls"

    I'm not singling anyone out but I constantly see threads along the lines of: "Hey guys. I'm good looking, smart, funny and somewhat popular. Why am I still not getting girls?" I am going to say that 9 times out of 10 it is because you aren't trying enough! You can't just go and work on...
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    First Time Stories/Advice?

    Hey guys there's probably a thread like this around here so please link me if you can. I'm just want to hear about the experiences you guys had with your first time having sex. Was it with a random or someone you cared about? Did you regret it? How did it effect your results with girls and...
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    Shakes and Timing

    I may be overanalysing here but I am rather curious. If whey is a fast acting protein and casein more slowly digested does that mean why should be used after workouts and casein for other times? Or if I'm having six meals a day is it a moot point how fast whey is digested? What about...
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    The Art Of Coversation

    The Art Of Conversation According to the DJ Bible the main rules for conversation are somewhere along the lines of: -Don't talk about yourself. It ruins the 'mystery'. -Keep asking her questions, chicks love to talk about themselves. Now I can see how this MAY help a newbie who is prone...
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    Drinking Milk After Exercise Encourages Muscle Gain And Fat Loss, Study Finds

    http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/79235.php I just hope the research wasn't funded by a milk company.
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    5x5 Strength Training

    Hey I'm wondering what people think of this program: http://stronglifts.com/stronglifts-5x5-beginner-strength-training-program/ Just from everything I've read (which is probably too much) doing squats in both works outs (doing the 3 times a week) seems like way too much. One of the threads...
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    Dealing With Ugly Girls That Show Interest?

    Wow, I'm asking for advice =P There's probably a few threads like this but for the life of me I don't know what to do. Look I'm a nice guy, no not a AFC but a decent person. This draws a lot of people to me, not all of them I want to be around. So there's not one, but two girls that are...
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    Recipes for bulking?

    Hey guys, looking to get my diet planned out here. Anyone got any good resourced for tasty recipes designed for bulking? I want HEALTHY meals as well, I can't afford to sacrifice my health for some muscle ;) It will be good to come up with a bit of variety.
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    Pickup In High School - Read This!

    I asked Sean Messenger (former Pickup 101 instructor and now at LVO3) about pickup for someone my age (17). I thought his response was important and that everyone on the high school board should see. This is coming from someone who actually taught this stuff! Now I'm not writing off the DJ...
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    The OTHER Benefits Of Strength Training

    Check out this, there's a lot more to strength training than just building muscle. It's about your life. http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man It's a great radio show but for the purpose of this thread check out 'Episode 22: Rob McNamera: What is Strength?', the Shawn...
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    How To Get Girls Talking About Sex

    For a change here’s a little fun piece of advice you could use as a ‘technique’. I wondered about this for a long time. Guys always said to be sexual, and even to talk about sex. I thought, how do you do this? Especially considering its high school. Now I have found out that being sexual is...
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    Destroy Oneitus NOW - A How To Guide

    Destroy Oneitus NOW – A How to Guide It has come to my attention that oneitus is the number one problem with almost every guy that comes here. It is a problem for AFCs and even some seasoned DJs alike. Here I will explain it in detail and tell you how to prevent in a way that actually works...
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    Quick Tip For Getting A Number

    Here’s something simple I do that seems to work and increase the chances of you getting a number. Most guys say something along the lines of “so uh can I get your number?” This sets her up to easily say no and puts her in control. Here’s what I do: “Give me your number” and I hand...
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    DiCarlo Escalation Ladder - Kino Done Right!

    This is probably the the best kino guide I've came accross. It works smoothly and explains it step by step. It's good for guys who might be somewhat new to it or have read about kino and still aren't sure exactly what to do. If you are somewhat decent at kino and pickup you shouldn't ever come...
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    DJ Tricks Don't Work In High School!

    Seriously. Anyway 'tricks' wont work anywhere. Think about it, half of this stuff is based around the fact that girls have had lots of experiance with chumpy guys. In high school a lot of the girls aren't going to have had that much experiance, probably rendering a lot of this rather...
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    When is taking 'being a jerk' too far?

    I want to know your opinions, formed from your experience, on when you can take being a jerk too far. Now I'm naturally c/f. I'm thinking that it just depends on the girl how she will react to it. I'm not worries about it, at the moment I'm just reflecting and I would like the input from others.
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    The Science Of James Bond's Success - Article

    Seen this and just had to post it: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/2150930/Secrets-of-James-Bond%27s-success-with-women-unravelled.html I found it very interesting that this study showed the amount of sexual partners a guy had was linked to personality traits. The paragraph that...
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