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    Flaking women?

    I think I'm trying to justify this flaky woman in my mind but has anyone had a women flake only to find out later that she did it because she was too shy or some other reason. Like she really digs you but is too shy to follow through on a date. Or she has a pimple so she flakes on you. Or she...
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    Trying to read this girls body language.

    I know this girl, been acquaintances for a little while, gone out with her once. I've touched her and she is responsive. Picked her up in my car and as we were driving to have coffee I tapped her on the shoulder to make a point, a few minutes later she taps me back on the shoulder. I've hugged...
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    What does "sorry sunshine" mean.

    Was in a shop the other day. Had spoken to this girl before, sometimes flirted with her, today I was asking if they had a particular item that they haven't had in there for a few weeks. This girl goes into the back to look for what I want and comes out and says sorry "sunshine" we don't have...
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    Why guys don’t want to be friends with a girl who breaks up with them…

    Just read this on a blog. http://www.b937online.com/pages/3994107.php?itmBlogDomainUrl=http://tom-wfbc.itmblog.com/2009/09/23/would-you-like-fries-with-that/ I know a girl who broke up with a guy and she told him she wanted to “still be friends.” He said, “No thanks.” She wondered why he...
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    Women thinks I insulted her with C&F Line. What do I do?

    I was talking to this women I know the other day when I dropped a C&F line on her and she thought I was the rudest person in the world. I asked two friends about the comment and one said I was rude and the other said it was a funny joke. So I'll let the people here decide for me if I was...
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    Playing with hair sign of IOI or not

    I know this women, I don't want to date her but I think I am picking up signs of IOI's from her. I wanted to know if this was an IOI mainly to know if what I am doing is working on women or not. Anyway the last time I saw her she is pulling on her ponytail the whole time I am talking to her...
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    Girls give up after no RIO

    Hi Guys. Still asking the same questions again. Guess I'm having a hard time getting this stuff to sink in. I'm 45 and often I get attention from younger women in the mid to early twenties. It always seems to go the same with me. They show some interest, chat, act really nice, ask me...
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    Blew off a girl with BF yesterday. Feeling ashamed now, will this pass?

    Hi Guys. It's tough killing the nice guy inside of me and he took another hit yesterday. I knew this girl around 23 or 24, she has a BF and we used to talk about 6 months ago. We exchanged phone numbers and chatted and went for coffee together a few times. I was Mr. nice of course and never...
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    Women having fun and being playful or something else?

    Hi guys, I need some advice here tonight. I'm an older guy of 45, lately I've notices this young women that works at a coffee shop I go to has been trying to get to know me. I'm a regular there, I go in there a few nights a week to read or write in my journal. I never try to come on to any...
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    Waining libido

    Hi Guys. I guess it's all part of getting older. I'm 45 and just recently started to notice that some days I just am not interested in gaming women at all. I called the post Waining Libido but in actuality I still have a pretty healthy sex drive these days. I'm sexually attracted to women. I...
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    Help me psychoanalyze this girl

    I was sitting in one of my favorite coffee shops the other day. There is a pretty cute young girl that works there. While I was sitting there another cute young girl comes in and drops off a resume. After the girl looking for a job leaves one of the girls says to her co-worker "we don't...
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    Hot or Not rating, a boost to my ego.

    I never thought of myself as good looking. I used to rate myself a 2 or a 3 internally whenever I looked at myself. I put my picture on Hot or Not about a year ago and got ratings between 4.5 or 5. To some that might seem low but it was high to me. It made me rethink how others saw me and...
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    Question on IOI's... Again

    This happens from time to time with me. Happened with two separate women on Wednesday. Met a women. They seem nice, friendly etc. We are in a public place with other people around. An office or restaurant, etc. They decide that they need to tell you something or show you something. They...
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    David DeAngelo doesn't get it.

    I watched a lot of his videos several years ago, and after growing as a man I've come to realize that he doesn't get it. Sorry, he is a fake. He is not a natural, he probably has little game. I used to believe everything he talked about in his videos, I've tried all of his techniques and...
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    Is this a sign of attraction?

    I sometimes hang out at a tea shop near where I live, about a block and a half walk. I sometimes go in there sit at the counter and drink my tea and read or journal. I have a rule of not hitting on waitresses in shops. It's a rule I created because I have seen so many guys hitting on women...
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    Fashion, what a joke.

    OK, I'm not against fashion per se. My beef is with these young women who follow the stupid fashions. The one that ticks me off is the scarf trend that is going around this year. I have seen so many young women wearing scarfs and looking like complete idiots. Why why why do women do that...
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    Ever have one of those, that used to be me, moments

    Hi guys, I had a event happen the other day that made me feel really good about moving away from my old AFC self. I was in my favorite coffee shop queuing up for a coffee. There are lots of regulars there and I happened to be standing behind this one guy I had seen before. I don't mean to...
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    Being the prize. AKA "The Dmitri Trap"

    Hi guys. I've been reading pick up material for some time now and at first I was confused by the "Be the Prize" comments I read or saw. Many guys fall into the Dmitri trap and start acting like jerks and have really no understanding of what a prize is. If you can get through this...
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    I'm so proud of myself.

    I know this Women. I'm pretty certain she is an AW. Most times when I bump into her she is always saying "lets get together soon for coffee". One time I bumped into her twice in the same week in the same part of town. Both times she said " lets do coffee next week" She had this urgency in her...
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    Can anyone relate to this.

    Through my several years of moving from an AFC to a DJ, I have many experiences in what I will call the dying of the AFC in me. The reaction I had yesterday to an event that killed a little more of my AFC was so different than what I used to go through. In the early stages I would do...
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