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    South Indian: Should I marry if I found my LOVE?

    hello guys, so I joined this forum 1.5 year ago, and today for the first time I find myself falling in love with someone that I really care about, and the other person shares the same feelings.. My priorities right now are to get someone who will try new things, and be comfortable under joint...
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    SOS, Girl wants to get married after a week, please help, I'm South Indian..

    k, I might have to blame myself for this or do I? I will reveal the big problem in point forms to get you guys through time line.. #1) I sign up to matrimonial website at shaadi.com #2) Girl Contacts me on 24 April, and I accept.. #3) It seems she pre-selected me, as we share the...
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    Would shaadi.com be good option for South Indian, to find a life partner?

    This matrimonial portals are created for south Indian people and NRI, the biggest advantages they carry are highlighted below... Advantage -Search your own partner, with unique preferences, and standards -You're talking to people who are serious about marriage - No strings attached, you can...
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    Is having strong passion for dance bad thing?

    Ok, as it goes I never dance or tried until two years ago, I thought it was my biggest weakness, and my shyness would never allow me to get over the hump. However, it all changed on one eventful marriage party, when my Uncle who pulled me out to dance with the crowd, it was daunting at first...
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    After three month visit, my New view on India, and Arrange marriages for NRI..

    Ok, so having been back from India, after spending 3 months, I've come away with quiet a few new startling observation. - having family back in India is big advantage, as you get instant social proof, even if you go back there after 12 years like me..LOL... and easy Network that you can start...
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    Should I fight for Alpha status with my Brother In India?

    I am traveling in India right now, and everything I do is compared with my bro, and he is getting an alpha status..:cuss: This is one year project into Donjuan land for me, I've studied, and practiced a lot of material, and I try to be as interesting as possible, still everyone seeks...
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    I'm nail polising my thumb so whats the best response when they ask aout it?

    Just like mystery does it I'm doing black nail polish on my one thumb, and it looks really cool, plus I have added little bit of a color on my hair too, this completely changed image, and how people interact with me, still How do I explain? whats the best punch line? To fulfill their curiosity?
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    Does NLP enhance lifestyle? is it better for seduction?

    Ok, so I've been studying NLP for some time now, and its just starting to make an impact as I start to recognize the link between Seduction and social dynamics, yet I don't see much discussion about this topic on this board, especially considering Donjuan's primary focus is on himself, and self...
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    What do you guys do to keep calm? Especially, when there are so many dynamics at work

    So, as it goes, my game is advancing, and I'm becoming more comfortable under approach, yet with so much accumulated knowledge comes the experiment part, where I get really uncomfortable trying new stuff, and its just not as smooth... So, do I just ride it out, the initial stages or is there...
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    What is the best thing to say if you don't want to talk about work?

    I have been really working hard at being great conversationalist by following lots of self help programs, yet, there are some topics that just brings out negative frame set, and work is one of them, so how do I tell the girl about stopping the the topic, and not get too much deep into it.. I...
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    Is it ok to make fun of myself, on first rapport building?

    Ok, this is something new I'm trying, and I'd like your guys opinion on this approach.. As it goes I've been trying out lots of new activities, and I go through lots of funny stuff as I try to learn first dance moves at the dance school, and as I learn to skate and fall over again and again...
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    As Donjuan do we become more self-absorbed?

    I know today, I'm more social, and have better social and conversationalist skills due to approach of never backing down from a challenge, and ability to chat with pretty much anyone, yet my cousins and close friends are starting to complaint that I become too much involved with strangers and...
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    In terms of looks, Does it hurt being different and unique?

    Ok, when I started these Don Juan path, I was pretty normal geeky guy, with almost no sense of style or self confidence for that matter.. http://picasaweb.google.co.uk/prash.gandhi/Prashant/photo#5155177959169616674 And in last 1 year, I've turned it around, so much that six months ago, girls...
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    Below AFC in Top Don Juan Zone, need help big time!!

    Ok, as my situation goes, I have transformed like no other in last 1 year, and today I find myself on other extreme but very little experience to understand all these, so guys let me know what I should do.. This is one week endeavours that started for MBA case competition with 32 countries...
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    Screwing it up quiet a bit, should I march on?

    Hello guys, Ok this may sound like broken record, but I had spent 24 years of my life without really going after what I wanted, especially girls. And in Last 1 year I've practiced teachings by almost every seduction and self improvement Guru out there, yet I am not ready due to lack of...
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    Making Changes To Our Life Style Using NLP...

    Once we understand our own map of reality, we can make changes to it in order to obtain the life experiences we want. NLP provides us "maps" used by other people. We learn how others have responded to a particular situation we are facing. We see the differences in the approaches and in the...
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    More energy then time itself, so how do I deal?

    I'm currently 3 courses away from completing my bachelors, and I've changed my life for a very different course in mere 8 months, I almost never had any dates before.. so as it goes in last six months I've gone from complete introvert to very much extrovert personality wise. I have met and...
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    which one to choose? Learnning to game or getting average relationship?

    Ok, as it goes, I am having hard time deciding if I should go for a long term relationship with an average girl or not get too much involved at all, and to keep on improving standards, and hopefully get enough confidence and experience over time to approach the dream girl that I hope to...
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    If other people at school, dance lessons are calling me a player, what should I do?

    I will admit that I wear stylish clothes, and try to talk about cool things that I do like taking 5 dance lessons, and doing other activities, and somehow everybody I meet seem to think I have girls all around me, and Ya its true to a degree that I am starting to attract more girls, however...
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    Asking girl to call back for date?

    Ok, so as it goes, I made quiet a good impression on first approach with this girl that I had an instant date with while eating lunch at university, we have lots of things in common, and very similar background.. and after two days I invited this girl to just come and maybe go for coffee...
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