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During Halloween last year i´ve met a woman, a sort of friend of my former neighbour. We chatted up, made fun and she touched me a lot. In that time i was in a relationship so i didn´t do anything. Now i am single for a while and haven´t seen her since that Halloween. So last thursday i decided...

Since a while there is a new datingwebsite online in the Netherlands: secondlove.nl This datingsite is connecting people who wants to have seks/affair beside their LTR. There are even commercials on television to promote this website! The Dutch are pretty liberal but i think this goes way...

Several weeks ago ive met an interesting woman. We chatted and there was a lot of fun and a connection. During carnaval, a week ago, i met her once more. I suggested to have a drink together soon. She agreed without hesitation. So a few days ago i send her a short message: hey, let´s have a...

Often i read on this forum that man have to show their intentions when they like a girl. I am not talking here about the cold approaches in a club but more with girls you meet during daily situations like work or sport and probarly know for a little while. My question is, how do you show these...

Today my colleague came over to my place to make food for me. She intended to cook for me a while ago. The last months we flirted pretty much (touching eachother, teasing etc.). We are both in a relationship. The situation was perfect, good weather no other people around us. What went wrong...

Since my early twenties i know i cant´have children of myself (also not possible with medical help). It was a shock to hear but oke, i was young and thought there are worse things that can happen to, it didn´t bother me too much. Now i am in my mid thirties and see people of my age having young...

What does it mean when you talk to a girl who you are attracted to and already know a bit and you notice she is glaring to another guy (who she knows) at the same time. I was annoyed by it and told her i had to to somewhere else and cutted of the conversation. It felt awkward, it gave me the...

And here we go again, The girl i am attracted too is walking into the room where i work. So i think, let´s have some fun again and arrange a day and time to cook together. That was already a plan of us together since a while. But i look at her and she looks not too happy....she starts to...

What to do when you like a girl who gives you attention but you have the feeling her attention/attraction is slipping slightly away? I start to feel less comfortable about myself at this point and want to turn around the bad feeling. Any thoughts?

Last few days it went completely wrong with me. Having this crush on this girl from work was driving me crazy. I was reading on this forum and searched for answers for not getting in the friendzone and how i should get her more attracted to me. The more i did the more i got confused, i just...

In my former threads i told about this girl at work. She seems attracted to me (see threads) but today i got really frustrated by her. Positive today: she is seeking me and wants to hang around with me. Negative today: she is telling about her boyfriend hoping he is doing a propossel soon...

Today i grabbed my balls. I walked up to the girl i like at work (see previous thread). I just finished work and was seeing her in her office being busy with paperwork. I told her she needed a coolingdown and that she had to come over with me for having an icecream. Without hesitation she said...

I ruined my previous thread by submitting it three times in a row. So here is the good one. Looking forward to see your serious opinions. If something isn´t clear please ask. Several weeks ago i posted about a co worker who is, to my opinion, flirting a with me. This is not happening all the...

Several weeks ago posted about a co worker who is, to my opinion, flirting a with me. This is not happening all the time but at least a few times a week. The flirting is more like teasing. We stand eachother in the way in front of the door so she or me can't pass and lately she stole a can...

Last night in pub a girl who i know randomly (and showed clear interest in me a day before in the same pub) introduced me to her boyfriend. I said hi, talked with him and her for a short minute and slipped away with the excuse to get another drink. Damn, i was sure she showed interest the day...

At the moment i am really angry about the following thing that happened at work today. I work as a teacher on a high school and during the break a few pupils had a chat with me telling out of the blue, without that much emotion, that a female colleague told them i am an alien look alike. I...

I was just wondering about this. There must be amazing stories which can help other DJ´s.

Since a few months i have a new colleague and she is a pretty good looking girl to me with Oriental roots. We work seperated in the same building but it happens we chat up during a break or so. It became clear during a chat we both like cooking and a few days later she gives me recipes (while...

Can someone explain me this: For a pretty long time i 'chage' this girl. She acts positive to hang around all the time but we never got any further (sexual). For some reason i could not reach that point and i was always the one who had to take the initiative to see eachother. So i meet...

Hey, this is an continue on my former thread 'when a girl never initiates contact' The girl was correct on time at my place. Little chat and then watched a romantic movie she brought with her (she told me about it, funny movie). After the movie i put some music on and whe chatted again, more...