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    Alphathree's late-night ramblings on social theory

    REALMS OF CONFIDENCE You walk into a pub and see a perfect 10, all jazzed up and sitting by herself. You are paralyzed with fear. You can't approach. But it is not the perfect 10 alone that scares you. It is your current social context. If she walked into your bedroom unexpectedly, you...
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    Word-for-word how alphathree asks girls out

    Notice the articulate speech and careful choice of words... the neg hits... the C&F... the opinion opener... Alphathree: it's on tuesday. Alphathree: you're coming. HB9: k Quick, get out your pens and pencils, write it down word for word!
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    Non-female habits in my so-called "DJ" lifestyle

    - I check myself out in the mirror with my shirt off a _lot_ ... making faces from 'serious' to 'playful' to 'scolding' to 'curious' - I do crunches, push ups, leg raises, and squats before bed (depending on which muscles aren't sore) - I take dance lessons and go social dancing. I dance...
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    Alphathree's guide to having patience

    Patience. You see a girl. She's cute. So what do you do? You say hi I'm Alphathree C&F C&F C&F Vibe Vibe Do you have a number okay great I'll call you then you call then you ask her out then you try to kiss her then you try to screw her then you find out if she wants to be your girlfriend...
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    Some musings on "having things in common"

    I dated this HB9 for a while. Got a bit of a crush on her. Screwed it up. Whatever. We're still 'friends.' With my other female friends, I know I have the upper-hand: they're attracted to me, I have the power, we have fun together. It's all good. (For each one, I've either been physical...
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    Everything you ever needed to know about dealing with women ... in 30 seconds

    http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=601898222402457606 I love this commercial. Things to notice (some obvious, some not): INITIALLY - SHE notices HIM first... this USUALLY happens and it SHOULD. - He's just looking around, checking out his surroundings, care-free, ignoring her -...
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    A "tactic" you won't want to miss -- C&F at its best

    Okay guys, I am sharing this with you against my better judgement because this isn't some 'canned' thing I found on the internet . I came up with it myself and it works really well. It's quite simple. Maybe you came up with it too. Basically, every girl you meet, you have to tell them...
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    Age, careers, social status, and sex with beautiful women

    This has been nagging me for a while. Now many of us here understand "the game" as in the things we can say and do around women that cause them to feel attracted to us. Great. This is _NOT_ what this post is about. It is about this: Average joe spends most of his life trying to increase...
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    Sh!t, One Itis Problem

    B_itch slap me out of this guys, please, be as brutal as possible without doing any permanent psychological damage. Dated girl for ~1 month. Absolutely stunningly drop dead gorgeous... her face ... ahh... easily cuter than the cutest of America's Next Top Model. She breaks up with me...
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    Mini FR: AMOGs, Discipline, and ****-tests

    (DISCLAIMER: I know we disagree on the definition of an "Alpha Male." Read at your own risk.) One of my friends is the AMOG of AMOGs. Most of them time, he's quite nice. He compliments absolutely everyone -- AFCs, AMOGs, HBs -- and he is always demonstrating value with high-fives...
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    Getting hurt and dealing with it.

    I get hurt from time to time by woman. Hey, it happens to the best of us. Tonight is one such night. My training tells me to supress my emotions... but I've also found the past few times I've been hurt (lol) that allowing yourself just one night or perhaps one hour to just experience those...
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    FR: My latest lady

    Nevermind, my FR sucked arse.
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    Don't let society tell you what you want

    I've been dating an absolutely gorgeous, beautiful, downright hot girl who also happens to be sweet, intellectual, and truthworthy. Sure, she still tests just like all girls do, but once I got past that, man, what I found was really special. One in 500 or 1000, at least. She was so...
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    Why the rest of the world doesn't accept how attraction works?

    Even on this message board, we're not 100% sure how attraction works. But many of us have a good idea with some experimental knowledge to back it up. (And a few of us have read some theories about _why_ it works that way... evolutionary biology and such.) True, we disagree over the importance...
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    Thoughts on so-called "C&F" versus dominance

    (Aside: please, only respond if you're actually getting laid, I don't need hypothetical opinions here, lol.) My game is "natural" now, so I never use any real techniques and tactics. The only time I really consciously think about it is when an HB9+ is trying to dominate my reality, "test"...
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    The difference between pick-up and natural game

    The art of "pick up" will not solve any of the problems that anyone here has. How do you know if you're doing "pick up?" If interacting with women feels: -- intimidating -- cold -- calculated -- standoff-ish -- anxious -- tricky "Natural" game feels like this: -- relaxing -- fun...
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    Self respect and what it really means

    As I read through today's "help, I have this girl problem" posts, I can't help but feel bad for mankind. And I do mean "man"kind. All the pick-up lines in the world will not save you guys from this state of grovelling over women. You chase, you approach, you analyze, you hope, you pursue, you...
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    A nerd with 3 inch thick glasses could score more ONLINE lays than me

    I am completely and totally useless online. This doesn't really matter since I meet enough women in real life. However I have some credits left on LavaLife that I'd like to turn into a few on-the-side lays, so I'm experimenting with random nerdy/C&F messages. (That's right, Im using...
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    Thoughts on proceeding from natural game to no game at all

    An attractive woman need not game men; they are attracted to her automatically. There must be an equivalent state for men. I think I am nearing it. It has little or nothing to do with appearance, at least in the sense of muscles. Tactics and techniques may or may not be necessary training...
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    *kicks himself in the pants* friggin masturbation

    This might be a bit graphic but it's amusing. So I'm in the shower, you know, doing the deed with this girl in mind. I was in there for maybe 15 minutes max. It was sometime between when I went in the shower and when I got out that the very girl I was masturbating to calls me and tells me...
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