Alphathree
Senior Don Juan
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- Aug 4, 2005
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As I read through today's "help, I have this girl problem" posts, I can't help but feel bad for mankind. And I do mean "man"kind. All the pick-up lines in the world will not save you guys from this state of grovelling over women.
You chase, you approach, you analyze, you hope, you pursue, you fantasize. You may even score a few women for short periods of time or for longer if the other guys around are even MORE pathetic than you.
You have to respect yourself and place value on your time and attention. You need to learn to be alone and be completely happy. Once you have this, you can create whatever reality with whatever women you want.
But so long as you need women, you will never get them. It's true-- it doesn't make any sense.
Stop chasing after a hot pair of legs... stop salivating at nice skin. It is SO pathetic. We've giving all the power to women, but they're not designed to be leaders... to be men. So they've simply started to become corrupt.
We men need to regain our dignity and our leadership. I feel like a member of some sort of secret society because while all of these poor souls pander after women, I'm secretly moving from one to the next. Wait, I _AM_ a member of a secret society.
I've learned how to be satisfied with my life, with my women, with my relationships. I'm not perfect, but I'm getting better and better.
And now I really want to help. Because I don't want to feel like Winston in 1984, having a real relationship in a secret apartment while the rest of the world brainwashes itself into oblivion.
It's like there's a blizzard of disrespect toward men out there and I've built myself an apartment that blocks out all the snow. But even though I can live in my apartment, I'm still discontented by the blizzard outside.
Maybe, for example, we could have a day of the week where EVERYONE on this message board agrees to not interact with women. If you have dates, you cancel politely. If you get phone calls, you don't pick up. If you get emails, you dont respond.
Just one day... randomly... every week. And on that day, everyone would promise to go out with their guy friends (or for some of you, to GET some friends) and do whatever it is YOU want to do.
But that's just my suggestion... I already have days like that... but I'd make them extra-special for myself if I knew there were some people out there getting back their respect on that same day.
You chase, you approach, you analyze, you hope, you pursue, you fantasize. You may even score a few women for short periods of time or for longer if the other guys around are even MORE pathetic than you.
You have to respect yourself and place value on your time and attention. You need to learn to be alone and be completely happy. Once you have this, you can create whatever reality with whatever women you want.
But so long as you need women, you will never get them. It's true-- it doesn't make any sense.
Stop chasing after a hot pair of legs... stop salivating at nice skin. It is SO pathetic. We've giving all the power to women, but they're not designed to be leaders... to be men. So they've simply started to become corrupt.
We men need to regain our dignity and our leadership. I feel like a member of some sort of secret society because while all of these poor souls pander after women, I'm secretly moving from one to the next. Wait, I _AM_ a member of a secret society.
I've learned how to be satisfied with my life, with my women, with my relationships. I'm not perfect, but I'm getting better and better.
And now I really want to help. Because I don't want to feel like Winston in 1984, having a real relationship in a secret apartment while the rest of the world brainwashes itself into oblivion.
It's like there's a blizzard of disrespect toward men out there and I've built myself an apartment that blocks out all the snow. But even though I can live in my apartment, I'm still discontented by the blizzard outside.
Maybe, for example, we could have a day of the week where EVERYONE on this message board agrees to not interact with women. If you have dates, you cancel politely. If you get phone calls, you don't pick up. If you get emails, you dont respond.
Just one day... randomly... every week. And on that day, everyone would promise to go out with their guy friends (or for some of you, to GET some friends) and do whatever it is YOU want to do.
But that's just my suggestion... I already have days like that... but I'd make them extra-special for myself if I knew there were some people out there getting back their respect on that same day.