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    Do Not Expect What You Do Not Possess

    Hello DJs, I wanted to share some thoughts regarding expectations that have been steeping in my mind for the past few years. What do you want in a woman? Do you want her to be in the top 10% of attractiveness? Do you want her to be perfectly shaven like a barbie doll? Will her nails always...
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    Advice on text game?

    Hey DJ's. Could anyone help point me in the direction of some really solid text advice? I am not used to dating with active texters, and I'd like to avoid learning the easy lessons the hard way. Any help would be appreciated! Thanks, Deadly_Ripped
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    Revelations from 15 years of DJing

    Hey everyone, I am almost 30 and I have been coming to this site on and off for the past 15 years. I broke down my experiences during that time into a series of phases, each with a starting points, a series of lessons learned, and then a description of the transformations undergone. I hope...
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    Occupying Wall Street?

    Anyone following the Occupy Wall Street movements in any of the major cities? I'm thinking about attending the one near my city over the next weekend if it's still happening. Looks like a lot of frustrated people gathering to express their sense of individual disenfranchisement that they...
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    I see the spark of cunning

    I'm not the most experienced person on this forum, but I'm not new to the community, nor women in general. I've slept with between 20 and 30 women and have dated between 50 and 80 (haven't really kept track). I've been in multiple long term relationships, and have broken most up, but have also...
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    Story Time - Interpretation needed!

    Hey guys, please help me figure out what's up with this girl! Met a girl through work. Different division - hooked up at work function. No one knows about it except us, but people suspect something. We've been dating for ~2 months and we're seeing each other more frequently, although we...
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    Quick grammar tips so girls don't judge you by your spelling

    Your = Belonging to or associated with the person or people that the speaker is addressing: "Your bad grammar is killing me inside, not because of your improper usage, but because of what it implies of your lacking awareness of how your grammar affects your image". You're = Contraction of...
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    How to Peacock like a Human

    Do you know why having bright feathers works for a peacock? BECAUSE IT'S A PEACOCK. Bright colors and feathers are what female peacocks look for. Do women look across a bar and seek out the guy with the most outrageous feathers on his ass or head? NO. They look across the bar and find the...
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    Isn't it Fun?

    Do you guys agree with this? After years of dating and several learning experience in the form of failed LTRs, LDRs, ONSs, and 1/2-daters, I feel like I'm getting more comfortable with the whole process. There seem to be fewer and fewer things that throw me for a loop, simply because I've...
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    This website has become a crutch

    I have used this website for a long time. I've learned a lot, and owe a great deal to it for my current place, not just in terms of social success, but also professional and physical success. That being said, I have found myself browsing this forum and posting only to placate insecurities that...
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    The celebrity/model Comparison and why it's wrong

    Everyone on here has done it, myself included... "Well, if you're a celebrity/fitness model then ...." or "Well, if you're not a celebrity/fitness model, then you're" We all seem to forget from time to time that social and physical hierarchies exist in a massive gradient. Those at...
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    Forward women on OKCupid looking for free dinner?

    Hi, Just sent a sarcastic and cynical message in reply to an hb 9 profile. She gets back to me like a week later and writes 2 sentences agreeing with what I said and then "so would you like to take me to dinner some time?" This comes off as some hottie looking for a free meal from some...
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    Loneliness?

    I enjoy and hate being single. I think neither of those two feelings towards singledom require explanation. Enjoying it is the easy part when I'm in a good mood (most of the time), but it's those times when I'm feeling lonely where enjoying it becomes very difficult. I find myself not...
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    Soy-Based Protein Powder with low/no phytoestrogens?

    Hi, Anyone know of a soy protein powder that has been treated to remove isoflavones? They're steroid hormones, so I would think someone makes a 'charcoal filtered' brand or something. Before someone flames this post, saying that I shouldn't be so worried about my aromatases, I want to...
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    No Headphones in Public

    I realized today, while on the train, in a bus, and out among pedestrians, that my headphones completely disconnect me from everything around me. Every time I plug them in I prevent anyone from talking to me unless it's urgent. It also prevents me from casually making conversation with...
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    OKC Sh1t test already...

    Hi, So I'm on OKC for greater exposure... I've only met a few people and nothing really went anywhere except the bedroom or me ignoring a follow-up phone call or text. Recently I've been getting a ridiculous number of hits and finally started talking with someone who has really caught my...
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    Cubital Tunnel Exercises?

    Hey everyone, I've had pretty severe cubital tunnel in both elbows for a few years now. Scapula release massage has helped, bu it's not making it go away completely. Any one here ever have a similar problem? Anyone know of exercises that I can do to help alleviate the issue? Surgery...
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    Postponing due to cold sore :-(*

    delete thread please.
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    Excited to Share

    Hey all, Haven't posted in a while. Just wanted to share some excitement. In the past: 6' tall, always shredded, with abs sexier than a washboard and 15.5" arms Was always getting the "how much do you bench" questions etc... Fast foward: 5 years after a bad car accident and a...
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    She invited me to her lake house for the wknd

    Hey All I'm invited tonight for a weekend at this girl's parents' lake house for a Friday night party with a few of her friends from high school, and a Saturday-Sunday with just her. The parents won't be there, and this'll be the longest time we've spent together so far. We've been seeing...
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