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    'Aiming' yourself at a particular type of woman

    I work in a very cerebral job, I've always been academic and quite laid back, and certainly while this can attract a really high calibre of woman, it's not so good for partying. I can be fun too, but you can become a bit too complacent and you don't realise to what extent you're living in your...
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    "Small talk"

    Hey guys. I have a question for you. Watching seasoned players, I've realised something. There is definite difference between the more formal small talk (not about the weather, but say, about family, what somebody's been doing today etc.) and the really personal kind of small talk that helps...
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    Pushing outside comfort zone

    At 29, I'm trying to be ruthless with myself about what is holding me back from achieving my potential with women, and I wondered what you guys thought. Perhaps you can identify with my situation. I know I need to break through some fears, or weaknesses, but first I need to identify them, then...
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    The Apple iPhone preview - fashion item or serious gadget?

    I just stumbled on this preview of the new Apple iPhone. http://snapshotreviews.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=2&Itemid=9 What I'm amazed about, amid all the hype, is that there is no 3G. Is it true that 3G isn't widely available in the US yet, which is why Jobs didn't...
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    Spur of the moment openers/chat up lines

    I just wanted some advice. At the moment, I suck at being spontaneous, and I'm trying (and will succeed) to change this. I'm thinking of those situations where you pass somebody fleetingly, say a waitress or punter at a nightclub, where you have a split second to chat her up - or you risk...
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    Spur of the movement chat up lines

    I just wanted some advice. At the moment, I suck at being spontaneous, and I'm trying (and will succeed) to change this. I'm thinking of those situations where you pass somebody fleetingly, say a waitress or punter at a nightclub, where you have a split second to chat her up - or you risk...
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    Work problems - would appreciate your thoughts on what to do

    Hi guys I just thought I'd air my thoughts and see what your opinions are on this situation. I think I'm coming to a turning point in my career. I enjoy what I do, but I've had some problems recently in not feeling appreciated by my boss and the founder of the company. The problem is that I...
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    The difference between being genuine/laid back to dull/boring?

    I'm wondering how you feel about this. To be honest, I feel surrounded by people who care so much about being charismatic, or TRYING to be, and their insincerity annoys and repulses me. Like they are just animals trying to outdo each other. I feel blinded and unbalanced by the sheer...
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    Problems involved with being very slim

    Hi everyone... I wondered what everybody's thoughts and experiences were about this. I think perhaps my only insecurity is the fact that I am very slim, and to be honest quite skinny. Now, in my own skin, I am quite happy about this. It means I do not have to worry about weight gain, about...
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    'Bringing yourself down' to the girl's level?

    I wondered if anyone on this board would identify with this... Do you ever find yourself facing a conflict when it comes to being who you are, who you are comfortable with - and doing what you enjoy doing - and placing yourself on the same level with women? What I mean is, if you have...
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    The Games People Play

    I just wondered what the rest of you thought about this, and whether any of you feel the same way. I am now 25, and so technically just about qualify for this forum, although I feel (if that is possible) quite a bit older. Maybe I am simply jaded. This affects all aspect of my life, home...
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    Modern life in UK and US

    I thought I would take some time out to find out all your thoughts on life in the typical westernised country in the 21st century...I warn you this is quite a contemplative thread, but it's not my attention to be alarmist or defeatist. This post is certainly not intended to be a whinge. Rather...
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    How do you get over a girl you were REALLY in love with?

    Look everyone, I know I'm probably going to get some ridicule for posting this, so if people don't have anything helpful to say, please don't bother! I think people here must agree that being in love is not an AFC thing. Or is it? I don't know. Whatever. Whether it is or it isn't, I have been...
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    The role of the media in the feminisation of Western culture

    Just recently I've been contemplating how utterly powerful the media is, and how it literally enslaves entire populations with the popular values it seeks to drum into its audiences - to a point where everybody, I mean everybody, must adapt to the implications of this, whether they themselves...
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