Search results

What do you guys do to snap yourself out of a depressed and completely blah state of mind. Where you don't feel like meeting anyone or really having alot of fun. I don't like being in that kind of state, but sometimes the harder you try to snap yourself out of it, the worst it gets. Any...

Even after having success with women, I feel like I still have alot of deep emotional wounds from my past. Maybe its my mind just making stuff up, but it seems very real. For basically 7 years of my young adult life (from 16-23), things were very black in terms of confidence, self esteem and...

I had this great realization this week. From kindergarden until my early 20's, I was the chronic "nice guy". There's nothing inherently wrong with that, but it doesn't exactly make girls drool all over you. Then all of a sudden in the last year and a half, I've learned about DYD...

The challenge of attracting women has long since faded. The initial excitment is over. Going from a nerdy kid in highschool into this cool guy in college that flirts with and goes out with attractive women, that was always my dream. It seemed impossible many times along the way. But through...

Spike TV recently ran a James Bond marathon over the holidays. He is the best DJ in the history of cinema IMO. Let's look in detail at the movie "Goldfinger" (my all time favorite) to analyze and model the James Bond DJ attitude: Near the beginning, he walks into a spanish bar and eyes a...

This girl I know is pretty open to alot of sexy and kinky stuff. She likes getting her hair pulled, she likes to get spanked, and she likes it rough sometimes. When you're confident with a girl, it's amazing what they'll let you get away with. This girl claims she doesn't like her ass messed...

Today at school, a funny thing happened. I felt completely "out of it" when talking to anyone really. Just one of those days where you're sore, tired, bored with finals, and you just want to get on with things. You don't feel like a conversationalist at all. You don't feel on top of your game. A...

There are tons of hot as hell Middle Eastern girls at my school. Armenian, persian and lebanese mostly. Maybe its just me (a regular looking white guy), but these girls seem as cold as ice. I haven't met many who were just relaxed, easy going, anything like that. Perhaps: Religiously...

I subscribe to the David DeAngelo Double Your Dating email newsletter. It's filled with alot of good stuff on seduction. I thought this example recently of C&F sent in by a reader was brilliant: ***SUCCESS STORY*** Dave, I'm a guy who has had pretty good success with women. Im in...

I've learned more about girls from this site and others over the past 6 months to a year than in all my previous years combined. Girls really dig a dominant guy in the bedroom. Not over the top, "get over her you stupid b!tch" type of jerk dominance, but a guy who takes charge, who leads, who...

Here are a few of mine: Last year, when I was first learning about kino, I practiced at home to brush up on my skills. I propped up a pillow and practiced so I wouldn't touch a girl too hard and give her a bruise or something, or touch her too softly and barely make contact. After some...

I've been getting girls to playfully hit me more in recent days. Light C&F seems to do the trick. Because they are laughing and doing it in a light hearted way, I take it as a nice sign of interest (no ones been offended at all). I think David DeAngelo talked about girls hitting you as their...

A friend of mine in his mid 40's, a guy who is almost broke, and is quasi new age, is quite successful with women. I realize I've been holding onto alot of limiting beliefs after meeting him. Surely, I thought, a jewish cello player, who looks a little like Jerry Seinfeld, he cant score with...

I'm more embarrassed about my finances these days than my game with women. Is it even worth the effort to date women when you're in such a hole. Most college students struggle with money, but my situation has slipped to wear I'm digging for dimes and nickels just to pay for a $2-3 lunch. Do...

The types of women I'm trying to figure out are latina and middle eastern women (usually iranian or from turkey, lebanon, etc). At my school, these women are just gorgeous, hot bodies, etc. Very sexy. I don't have much in common with them and thier personalities are usually turn offs. I'm not...

Today at school, I was walking around looking for a bite to eat in the food court, everything was closed (friday, things close early) and as I get to the last fast food placed that closed, I turn around and a girl says to me "I'm looking for a place thats open to" (she had seen me looking...

I've been in this spot many times. When you think things are hopeless, you're tired, semi-depressed, and you just want to stay home all day and play video games. Start setting short term goals for yourself! I mean really short term. Like, I'm going to do 5 push ups (or 10 or however many you...

Suppose you needed an extra $10,000 in the next 9 months. If you ask yourself that question, your brain starts thinking "ok, how do I make $10 grand?" You might enter some contests trying to win the money, you might save some. But most people wouldn't have a real clear plan about it. Now...

Tony Robbins has a great audio series "Lessons in Mastery" and he talks about the power of identity on the first tape. When you tell yourself "I am shy"....that becomes your identity and everyone has a very powerful tendency to act consistently with their own identity. Be very careful about...

Tonight, I met a young lady, a solid 7 1/2, wearing a very low cut dress. I was sitting off to her side about 10 feet away from her at a group I belong to. You could see her breast clearly, and it certainly spiced up my night. At the break, we walked past each other near the restrooms and I...