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Being somewhat of an exhibitionist and having what I would call a healthy level of vanity, I like to post pics of my life and of course the hot woman I am with... but my instinct smells a lot of appetite for validation in this drive. I also notice that the most independent alphas I know (the...

I think one of the greatest fears for the newly Red Pill is the anticipation of her "no's" when you tell her to do things, especially sexually. It's very easy to say use your IDGAF or soft next and it's not even that it's difficult to improve your handling of situations, but it can be...

Red Pill instinct is that this is nothing more than a mate-guarding attempt (if mis-guided), to detract from the importance of looks when she feels ugly. On the other hand, if there is past sexual trauma (which is like half of women), is there another answer? She often gets mopey that people...

When a woman says the icky continuous feeling of being controlled, not listened to, not taken for serious... what specifically does "controlled" mean to her? When she says she doesn't feel good enough, but my instruction to eat better, drink less, be active, etc. feels "controlling", what does...

There is a lot of discussion about this, but there are seeming contradictions in a lot of opinions that I don't see addressed anywhere. It is often said, women cannot change themselves; they are passive, meant to be acted upon. Makes sense. They are born to follow men... It is also said, the...

I was just thinking about the utility of personal rules of thumb about friendships, attention, jealousy, etc. because it's clearly critical to maintain a healthy balance depending on your type of frame. I am personally an LTR type who recognizes the value of plates but doesn't intend to take it...

My babygirl is doing therapy for her PTSD, and hopefully it is beneficial, but whenever she gets angry or frustrated she mentions that we need couples therapy "to learn to communicate" or something. At face value, I would choose not to waste time or dollars on a counselor when I could invest...

I haven't really introduced myself or my situation, so this will serve as my intro thread as well as pose one of my biggest questions. I'll say in advance, all are free to judge, I don't consider my past approach to life to be perfect, but I'm very pleased with where I am and where I'm going so...

https://www.elephantjournal.com/2017/10/why-the-ideal-alpha-male-is-a-fallacy/ I've never heard of this place before, but stumbled on it in my ramblings. Somewhat of a relief realizing how pathetically clueless the "opposition" is, isn't it... When I am feeling tired, in a teeny part of my...

I've noticed my girlfriend engage in plenty of female mate guarding, some of it explicitly and in some cases I have suspicions... in fact there was one cool couple of close SMV to ours and the guy cheated and they divorced and I never lined it up in my head before, but it was only after she...

This sh1t test discussion was interesting, but I noticed a trend of supposed redpills advocating the sleep elsewhere option over walking in like a man and sleeping in your own bed. I realize it is a choice between dread game and selfish alpha, but how would you make the call? Do people have a...

1) she has a legitimate question, writes a long message about something about the computer, paperwork, errands, what have you, and I miss one or more details in her question which alters the useful answer. When I answer partially or incorrectly, she nearly invariably says "you never listen". She...

Maybe there's a stupidly simple answer to this, but I have been looking for a few days and I can't find anything so think I'll just ask it. (I've been semi-aware for years but have re-discovered a lot of books recently and The Rational Male especially is hitting home for me in my current stage...