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    Meeting with engaged ex

    My ex of 3 years ago has been in contact with me recently, and things have escalated to the point of me ****ing her every time we meet. I enjoy it, she enjoys it, however she is engaged, and is meeting me behind the guys back. I broke it off with this girl 3 years ago due to her wanting...
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    I messed up - how to break up with girl

    Long story short: - met girl on tinder - she knew me through friends of friends - we had two dates and on second date I closed and pushed sex heres where i ****ed up - she really liked me? and is now calling me her boyfriend after a couple dates - i havn't told anyone about her, she's told some...
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    Go for more lean look or big/strong look?

    Hey guys, I recently made a progress thread and have been thinking about how I am going to progress fitness wise this year. I'm currently obese, but think I hold my weight pretty well. Throughout the last 3-4 years I've fluctuated weights between 130kg > 90kg > 120k (current). This was because...
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    Just saw a 18 year number close at the gym

    Hey everyone, I just noticed a DJ in the gym today. A scrawny kid being loud and doing bro stuff with about another 5 guys. You know, the type of guy who goes loud on everything and wants people to look. He just bothered a chick during his set and number closed. Im dumbfounded. Is this me...
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    Anpha weight loss/fitness progress thread

    My own little thread where I can post random thoughts and insights about my programming and fitness. I turned 23 yesterday, and have little to show for it. I'm 125kg, 175cm and labelled as OBESE. My goal before i hit 24 is to hit 90kg, and go for that no matter what. Current stats: - Bench: 5...
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    Just tried to sleep with my ex of 2 months

    I was the one to break it off, I was the one leading the relationship, and i was the one who eventually led her away. I initially told her to move on, as 'we' wouldn't work. I dated a couple plates thereafter but never found any chemistry. So i did the unthinkable, i tried to dabble in the...
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    What do you wear daily?

    Hi everyone, it’s 2017 and I was curious as to how you guys are dressing casually and for pickups? I’ve read the older threads about dressing nice but just curious what you guys wear day to day. If you could help me could you answer: Age, profession and clothing style. Because honestly, i’m...
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    Monk mode or nah?

    Hey guys, really appreciate any advice on this topic. I’m not the best looking guy, i’d probably say 4/10. Nothing some weight loss wouldn’t fix. Anyway, i recently broke up with my ltr, and thinking if I should either A) date women in my league for experience (not really my type - but still...
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    Mixed reactions

    situation: - matched 18 year old girl on tinder - doesn’t use phone much, 12 hour replies constantly - large gaps between texting, but sends like 10+ messages at a time - interest level seems moderate - claimed to be busy and flaked the day before date (exam and finals period) Am I...
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    Advice on my first break up (dump)

    Hello everyone, I am a long time lurker and old poster. The last time I posted here I was chasing a girl, and when I managed to get her, I fell out of the DJ life. I thought that having a woman completed me, how wrong i was... I stopped improving myself, heck I stopped improving. I've been...
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    Exclusive girl disrespected me, what to do?

    Hello guys, I was exclusive with a girl for around a month and caught her talking to other dudes on a similar variant of tinder. I told her i was disappointed in her and told her I'd like some space (2 weeks while she's on exams) so i can think about the relationship. I have seem to lost all...
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    Chasing a girl, got the girl, feel indifferent.

    What does it mean, if you just had sex with a girl you’ve been chasing for two months, but you don’t feel any chemistry coming from her? I adored this girl and when I had the opportunity to lay her this weekend, it felt as if it was only one way. This was her first time, but it still felt as if...
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    What should I do, she uses me and i use her

    Hello, i've been reading sosuave for the last 2 weeks, and it's very interesting to see that i'm that ****ing nice/feminine guy. I don't get things my way, with women or with other things. I generally give advice/be peoples soundboard, I don't make moves and am generally reserved. I have found...
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