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    Holding Frame and Keeping it Cool

    I've been soaking up a lot from this website and I want to thank everyone for their contributions. I've been divorced for almost one year now, and been having so much more success with women, both romantically and platonically. I credit this to acknowledging the inherent and natural biological...
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    Interesting Commentary on Marriage

    This article reports that men are wanting marriage less, and women more as a result of feminism. https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/young-men-giving-up-on-marriage-women-arent-women-anymore
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    Hitting the Wall, Needs Security, or Beta Dude?

    Anecdote time... Some of you may recall the woman I began playing music with who had a boyfriend, how she hit on me and I'd deflect, until eventually, she started crying saying that her boyfriend threatened her with a knife, cops called, and she was scared for her life. She had talked negatively...
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    She's Asking About Committment

    Been casually seeing one girl for about 4-5 months now, about 2 times a week and she stays over about once a week. I truly enjoy her companionship and the sex is great, shes very giving and enthusiastic and wants to please me. I was seeing a couple other girls but they dropped off because I've...
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    Hypergamy Anecdote

    Just wanted to share a story about recent events. This random girl I don't know (but we have a few mutual facebook friends) adds me on facebook. I've never seen her, talked to her, or heard anything about her, but I see she is a drummer and since I'm a musician, I get lots of new people adding...
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    Is There an Obligation to Tell a Friend he is Being Manipulated in his LTR

    I won't go into a long story, but a good buddy is totally being manipulated by a new girlfriend. She lost her apartment and car, moves in with my buddy for next to nothing and she uses his car cuz he works from home. He says he is very happy with her, but I never see my buddy anymore. The last...
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    Girl Won't Orgasm

    Says that she's only had one or two from intercourse, never from hands or oral, and that it "just happened" those one or two times. She's shown me what she likes, and when I touch her her whole body shakes and she gets extremely wet, wetter than any girl I've been with and I've ALWAYS been able...
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    Prostitute Sues Client for Rough Sex

    http://www.people.com/article/porn-star-sues-josh-duggar-assault-battery-alleged-sexual-encounter?xid=socialflow_facebook_peoplemag You can't make this up. Not only did a prostitute have consensual rough sex where she was choked, but she had him as a customer again. She said at the time it was...
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    LTR Seems to Be Forming - General Input

    I've really enjoyed this forum and wanted to post about what I've been up to and solicit some input. Quick background, 32 years old, own my own house, 10 years into a career, musician in several bands, and I'd rate myself about an 8. Divorced 6 months ago after 6 year relationship (married...
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    How Often Do You Hang Out With a Non-Committed Girl

    I've been seeing a girl for about 2.5 months, we have seen each other 2 times a week generally and it increased to about 3-4 times last week. I'm just curious about the whole "progression" thing and what I should expect as this relationship progresses. She's a great girl and I've started to give...
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    Responding to Flattery from a Plate

    Just curious how an "alpha" responds to flattery. For instance, if a girl tells you "you're so nice and sweet how did I ever get so lucky" or "you make me so happy" how do you respond in a masculine way? My inclination is to react with an "aww thats so great" but I have a feeling that is not the...
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    How to Respond When Asked About Feminism

    Just curious how you would respond if a woman you were seeing asked about your thoughts on feminism? Do you respond in earnest, parse your words, or lie?
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    Success Stories and Lessons Learned

    Some of you may recognize me as I've been posting on here for 6 months or so. Just got divorced last year, I'm 32 years old, and was with my ex wife since I was 25. It's been a learning experience discovering these websites and learning how women operate based on a biological, survivalist...
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    Sleeping Over Rules

    Any threads on here about sleeping over? Is there any sort of general advice on this topic?
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    Decoding A Phrase

    Been seeing a girl for a month, 3 dates over a few weeks, then sex 3 times in one week. Last night dinner at her place with her roommates (she's 25 I'm 32). Very light on texting since we met, saving it all for in person conversation. After I got home from dinner she sent her first really gushy...
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    Explain the Expectations of a DJ

    One question I've been thinking about is "If a DJ sees multiple women (plates), and finds out that one of the women has other plates too, how does the DJ take that into consideration?" I know the answer some would give on this site is something like: "the DJ doesn't care or react to that...
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    Defining Relationship with Girl in your Band

    we are both 31 years old been playing music for a long time just met her starting a band with her playing her songs. I am an accomplished musician and her music is incredible. Was not that attracted to her initially. Give her a 7 and Im an 8. However her talent and personality make her an 8.5...
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    Second Date Advice

    I met a girl two weeks ago at a concert, talked to her for 20 minutes and told her I was playing a concert the following night. She came by herself and stayed the entire time, and I only had about 10 minutes to talk to her. I got pulled away and didn't get her number as I had to deal with band...
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    Long Distance Hookup

    I previously posted in the Don Juan discussion, and found this page which is more appropriate. Overview: I'm 31, she 29. Known each other since high school. Over christmas she admits she's had a crush on me for a decade. She lives in New York, me in California. She bought me a ticket in...
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    need help or unique situation

    Long story so I will be as brief as possible. 1. Ran into old acquaintance who has had crush on me for a long time. 2. We live 3,000 mi apart. Agreed on a **** buddy arrangement. 3. She buys me a plane ticket to see her and flies herself to see me in two month period. 4. We have incredible...
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