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    Best cities for women

    Whats happenin guys, Wondering what cities you guys have found to be the best for both quantity/quality of women as well as their coolness level and openness to do new things. I know there are many here that prefer the conservative, traditional role for women but the problem there is you...
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    How to make a decision.. What kind of man are you?

    Looking for some input here guys, I find myself at a crossroads of life. Im certain that im overthinking this but its a tough issue. On one hand you can be a perennial bachelor and never really become exclusive for one girl, on the other hand you can settle down get married have kids etc...
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    Does dating a single mom make sense if you dont want kids/marriage?

    Seems like this might be a good idea, shes not going to be needy and pushing for marriage and settling down with kids because shes already done it. As I get older this would be more common anyways, what are your experiences? Ive never been with a mom, I did go on one date with one who was...
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    What is healthy sexual desire?

    How much is too much? Sex, anticipation of sex, memory of sex seems to consume me and many others, hitting on girls at work, always looking for a way to get xyz hot girl that I see out in the world, trying to fvck as many girls from online as possible, etc. Why are we incapable of monogamy...
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    Field report: two fails

    Lately I've started cold approaching women more because well theyre sexy and it is interesting and amusing to humble and embarrass yourself. My motivation to approach a girl generally only exceeds my indifference when they are pretty hot though, which makes it a bit difficult since I'm probably...
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    Would you rather have three plates that are 7's or marry a 9?

    Self explanatory.
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    Game is trump.

    Excellent advice just posted over at chateau for any of you who dont know about that website: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/05/19/why-you-shouldnt-wait-for-eye-contact-from-women-before-approaching/ Stop worrying about your looks, your clothes, your job, your height, your race, etc...
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    Moving to warm weather

    So my plan is to make a move at the end of the summer, out of the cold climate and to somewhere entirely new. I prefer somewhere near water that isnt texas or the bible belt, so I guess that leaves florida and socal or central cal. What are your experiences living or visiting these areas...
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    Rate the first SI swimsuit plus size model

    Ashley Graham, these two pics are a little misleading, she looks heavier in other pics if you google search.. http://40.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0hq89sm8e1qcl5svo1_r1_500.jpg http://36.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lxn57uRL1f1qh1v6ro1_1280.jpg Dont care what yall say, shes a babe! Tough to give...
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    The only difference between "alpha" and "beta"..

    ..Is willingness to fail. And not taking life too seriously. I dislike the terms because they imply absolutes and are used for a variety of different meanings, but it comes down to this. The beta wants comfort and security, he needs to be reassured and coddled. He wants to know that...
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    The glaring inconsistency of the manosphere

    A male dominated, relatively monogomous culture (like the 1950's) is great for low value betas. They have the law and societal expectations and norms on their side, and a higher value woman is more likely to settle with a lower value man for financial security, start a family, etc. A more...
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    Any truth to the submissive jap stereotype?

    Was just watching some rather bizarre japanese porn and wondered if they are in fact as submissive with white men as is commonly thought. Havent been with an asian before sadly, what is your experience?
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    good sex = good relationship?

    So i went to the strip club tonight which I haven't done for awhile, but I always find it to be an entertaining experience. Anyways, I wonder how much you guys correlate good sex with a good relationship in your experience. What IS good sex? What IS a good relationship? There were a couple...
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    (not so) subtle cues..

    Recent convo from OKC with some comments/translation in parentheses, feel free to leave any feedback or thoughts. I don't generally post about individual girls but this shows how much BS you have to push through to get a number sometimes. This is about as persistent as I ever want to be getting...
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    Beware of virtual sh!t-test, lesson learned!

    Went on one date with this girl two weeks back (have been spinning a couple plates and I notice this makes my date performance much better as I don't behave like a dog desperate to hump her leg) and it went pretty well, shy nerdy gamer type chick with an unbelievable rack.. like its just not...
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    Do girls **** test off approach/how persistant to be..

    When you approach and a girl seems interested, is it common for her to throw out some resistance/sh1t test about you taking her out or getting her number? Is this meant to be pushed back against or do you look desperate if you dont let it go. Couple examples: 1: Walking around at office...
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    Thrown off by her friend, what was the move here?

    So was walking around my office park at lunch, about a half mile loop with various corporate death factories on either side. Spot a cute indian chick with her friend and say hi on the first pass (trying to say hi to everyone i pass). On the second pass (we are walkin in opposite directions on...
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    **** test or?

    Gona meet up with this girl tomorrow from online, agreed to date and all and she asks "have you met many people on here?" Suggestions? Seems like odd question to ask..
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    Looking for tips or diversions for the "exclusivity talk"

    So its the beginning of a long warm summer and i want to continue dating several girls. However, I'm also interested in an LTR if the right girl stays around/shows she is worth it. How long do you guys recommend dating a girl before agreeing to exclusivity to make sure you know whats shes all...
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    sh*tty memory.. good or bad?

    So i did a lot of drugs in my life and probably not a great memory to begin with haha but I'm wondering if this is a pro or con with a woman. Like if I'm dating a couple girls and I ask them stuff they've already told me, does that annoy them and they think I just don't care about them? Or...
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