What confuses me is that she's highly interested in person and then sh1t like that happens.
I have the feeling that she's looking for a relationship and has the impression that I'm not which isn't really true. That's probably my hamster spinning though.
I'll listen to the advice and pull back.
The sh1t period at work is legit. I have a friend that works with her. He even asked me why she's working ridiculous hours of late.
I'll see what happens tonight, I have a stupid habit of getting in my head sometimes and then things turn out much better than expected. I'm probably doing it...
I get where you guys are coming from but I guess I didn't provide enough info.
1) Not yet. She wanted to Sunday but was on her period.
2) I know them, she invited me out with them on several occasions. I attended a few. Her friends and best girlfriends loved me and her brother was buying me...
I never canceled plans. I made plans with her and as a result refused people that later invited me places. I'd never cancel already made plans to see her. Her reschedules however were on days when I actually had no prior plans.
But yeah, you're not wrong with the never mind thing.
I'm dating a girl for about 1 month and I fvcking love her. Not literally, but you get the point. I genuinely enjoy spending time with her. We're a good match for each-other. And we both have busy lives. And that's the problem.
She flaked a couple of times in the past but here's an example...
It's ****. I mean it's a fun read but don't expect to learn anything from it.
Models, by Mark Manson. I've read my fair share of material but this is the best I've ever came across. 100% legit. Get the audiobook if you're interested, he reads it himself.
Im asking because I've had girls give me that "enough" attitude, so I guess I was taking it too far in those situations. Then again I probably was fishing for a reaction.
It took me some time to get through this but god damn was it worth it . I've been looking for something like this left and right
one question tho , how do you know how far you can push a joke or "us" mentality with a girl ?
She obviously wants to sleep with you OP. Otherwise she wouldn't have come over, let alone reschedule and come over.
What she did makes sense. You're just dealing with high-quality women sh!t here.
Don't ghost her. Keep that ratio if it holds. I guarantee she won't contact you again these...
The concept of spending the rest of your life together with the same person is horrifying to me.
I could be in love out of my mind but how incredibly stupid do you have to be to make a LIFELONG deal based on that?
A woman always needs to believe you can replace her with another of at...
You probably could've gotten a lay, not gonna lie.
But even so, it could clearly have gone much worse. I know countless stories that involve half-boner cuddling over watching a movie to the background sound of the guys' soul slowly being crushed by awkwardness.
Here's what you did really...
If you have to tell the people "I am the king", you're not a king.
Simply tell her "No problem". That's it. You're interested and she wasn't. Who cares? it happens all the time to everybody.
This kind of sh!t will never get awkward unless you make it awkward. And most people do because their...
I think he meant he didn't read the book, not the actual suggestion.
Anyway, I second "Models". I've read quite a few books and most are ****, over-exagerated or just complete re-iterations of the same old same olds.
Models on the other hand keeps it plain and real.
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