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  1. Konada

    How to run a LTR successfully - Learnings from a 6 year LTR

    I noticed that there has been some curiosity in the forum about running a successful LTR and thought that it was about time that I shared with the forum my learnings as it did when I was just a young kid trying to spit game and bang chicks. I'm getting married soon to a wonderful partner and...
  2. Konada

    Married Men resources

    Getting married soon in a couple of months time, what married men resources are there that you guys have found valuable?
  3. Konada

    Fathers of Sosuave, how would you raise your daughter?

    Thought its pretty interesting to talk about, I'm interested to know how you dads have brought up your daughters (or are doing so) with the knowledge you have about women and the dating market today. Also, how would you react/approve if you found out one of the forum members is seeing your...
  4. Konada

    How to text to get a girl on a date

    I see so many guys here fck up on this part immensely while it's one of the most simple things to do. Guys, when you text a woman, 99.99999% of them already know that you want to bang them. So act like you have a d!ck and stop pretending you're interested in the weather or her grandma's bowel...
  5. Konada

    Negative Rep needs to be brought back

    That will help newbies discern whose advice to take and whose been repeating rehashed nonsense.
  6. Konada

    What is up with the new adverts

    Has anyone noticed the new advertisements. I appreciate a nice female body and all but this is getting too much
  7. Konada

    Can a DJ be alpha-widowed?

    With all a majority of women being trash, what happens if we find a girl who ticks all the possible boxes of a good LTR dumps us? Does it set a baseline standard for what we accept or no less for future LTRs? By this, I mean a woman who is: 1. Attractive 2. Submissive 3. Sexually pleases you...
  8. Konada

    First Impressions

    We always talk about giving others a first impressions. Granted, we cannot control whether people are able to look beyond that but I'm curious for ourselves personally. How accurate are first impressions and should we learn to look past it? More often than not, I've been proven wrong and...
  9. Konada

    So I just got my heart ripped to shreds...

    Purely of my own doing. Lost frame, went in too fast. Its over. But I will come back stronger. Just need some support now... I never was fond of spinning plates, too tiring and I get bored easily. I thought I got over my neediness but it was apparent it shone like a fvcking lighthouse in the...
  10. Konada

    Potential wife material at the wrong time in my life. Did I make the right decision?

    Posted this here because I want mature views on the situation rather than the usual 'if you are alpha you would have already banged her' replies. Been dating this girl for 1 1/2 months. Overall, she has been a very sweet girl and I thoroughly have enjoyed our time together (investing a lot into...
  11. Konada

    Need to get my head right, advice pls

    Been dating this girl for a month now, we roughly see each other once a week. Overall, she has been a very sweet girl and very participative in our dates. Helping me with stuff, paying her own way, never flaking and very responsive when I set up dates with her. Christian girl,23, so far I have...
  12. Konada

    The key to getting rid of your frustration with women

    Give Value Simple as that. These 2 simple words have been the biggest lesson I've learnt from my dad, @da dynamically and another friend of mine (who happens to be one of the most charismatic people I know). Why most people are frustrated with women or even life in general its because they...
  13. Konada

    Valentine's Day - Desperation is real

    Don't know if anyone has been noticing but the desperate girls have been coming out of the woodwork recently... I've already got 4 dates lined up for next week via OLD and a handful of numbers to follow up upon...
  14. Konada

    Girl tells me I give serious 'player vibes'

    Had a date last night and all night long this girl keeps giving me sh!t about me putting out the 'player vibe'. I just roll it off with a cheeky smile and 'Yeah probably'. Apparently she got hurt before and told me about 'walls' she put up around strangers. Told me she was looking for a serious...
  15. Konada

    Did my first cold approach today

    Took me long enough to finally grab my balls and do it. Went out with a friend today to cold approach, but we picked a crappy venue and barely any attractive girls. I spot this HB7 Thai girl and hesitated, luckily I had my friend to push me to approach her. I realized as I committed my first...
  16. Konada

    K-Close on first dates but no second dates.

    So up till now I still can't get second dates, good thing is I'm kiss closing these girls and still pushing for sex. The previous one gVe me a BJ but then proceeded to tell me 'She doesn't do hookups' while the most recent one went ghost after I made out with her (she said no when I tried...
  17. Konada

    Gaming in Shanghai?

    Anyone has any experience what works? I'd prefer to speak english since my mandarin is terrible. Intending to start my cold approach journey here and use that momentum to overcome my social stigma fear back home.
  18. Konada

    Critique where I fvcked up here

    Got a chick's number from Tinder with a presumption that I was going to set a date when I text her. I have some clue as to where I fvcked up but I will withhold my opinions so I can get more clarity of what I'm doing wrong. Me: Guess who? HB: Michael? Max? Mark? Hmm I'm not sure hahaha Me: It's...
  19. Konada

    A review of my dating life so far: Insights appreciated

    I would say that I only really started putting myself out there in the past year even though I've been on this forum for quite awhile. And honestly, I'm not happy with the results I'm managing and at this point I feel that I've plateaued and don't know what I don't know. So in the past year...
  20. Konada

    Responding to stupid BS questions women pull

    Had a conversation with a HB8 on tinder that went like this: Me: Let's grab a drink sometime next week, drop me your number and I'll text you soon HB8: Hahaha, where do you have in mind? Me: xxx. What nights are you free? HB8: Next week? Me: Yes HB8: Hmm Tuesday is fine, do you ask every girl...
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