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I'd wait till you also get the opinion of those that have invested more thought/time into your thread but in my opinion... ...this should not change how you act at all. All it should do is cement your belief that this girl is not worth your time. Move on with your life and don't give her the...

Honestly all those things don't matter. All you need is a club full of girls, a few drinks and some confidence. Your hit rate might be 20% compared to brad pitt's 98%. You can still get plenty of action and a decent LTR. Most likely you're just not trying hard enough.

I've had similar thoughts. The thing that has bothered me in LTRs is if the girl is older (27-30) because I am effectively tying her down in a relationship where there is no promise (or much hope) of a marriage. You can tell the girl but most of them will stay with you because they love you. So...

First of all, you're a good guy. Good for you! Here's how I would deal with it. I would tell him exactly what you've told us. You THINK she is showing you interest and you had arranged for a date. You're not sure exactly what she thinks of either of you, and you are mainly only interested in...

I think it's important to stick to things she doesn't get compliments for usually. So if you want give her a sign of interest, then you could say something like "hmmm... that actually makes sense. you're not so stupid after all!" if the girl says something that's actually quite insightful. It...

Dude... it almost looked like you designed the entire approach in a way to minimize your chances of success. Not going up to her directly, starting off by telling her she's hot, mentionning a relationship by the 3rd sentence, etc... What's the deal?

I agree with the above. Make sure to carry all of the items in an oversized backpack before saying hi to the target girl. Do NOT leave them in the trunk of your car or in a cloakroom. Good Luck.

I think you guys are overreacting. I can appreciate wanting to keep "an upper hand" but let's be reasonable. Not everything has to turn into a framing game. Just ask her what the deal is and if she sounds genuine just forget about it...

combination of 3 factors (first 2 of which you guys already mentioned): 1) you like women who are hot. They have more options therefore harder to get. 2) you act more attractively around women you don't fancy. 3) if a woman doesn't want you, you find her MORE attractive. so it's a bit...

Do you go the same parties at all? That's probably the best way to move forward with a girl who is very responsive in person but that you are unable to take out on a date, for whatever reason. A kiss-close would do it. If there is no chance of that happening, then you're gonna have to take...

Sure, based on the limited benchmark of getting laid through clubs, I would agree. But if you expand it to a more general context which includes getting laid, having successful LTRs, and not only through clubs but also through friends, work, etc... then I would stand by initial statement that...

It's possible, but the author is probably making it sound a wee bit more common than it actually was. I've been out with a lot of guys that are 9/10 or higher and while they may get girls eyeing them left and right, actual unsolicited ****-grabbing or cell-phone stealing is very rare. most...

Hope nobody minds me spamming this thread. I am using it as a personal "diary/analysis of flakitude and how to prevent it" :-) Seems my last trick did something. Got a very fast reply: Analysis: She noticed she was 'losing' my interest and is attempting to get me to keep chatting/texting...

Alright, I've gone with something a bit experimental: Let's see what kind of reaction this gets, if any.

zekko, Do you have a link to this study? I've always believed girls have power in the beginning game (up to the 1st ****) but then it flips completely and they have to work at keeping the man locked into an LTR. I've had the same experience as radiodude in terms of who it is that breaks...