AlmostThere!
Senior Don Juan
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* I'm black and prefer to be with white or asian females. After being told by black and hispanic women that I'm not hood enough (or just seeing what these chicks prefer), I swore off trying to date those women. If I do find a hispanic or black woman that likes an "oreo", then my mind will be changed.
* Because of racism and the negative image people see of black men (which I don't fit AT ALL), white and asian women are especially leery of getting serious with a black guy.
* Not only is dating hard all by itself, I'm making it especially tougher going after women who don't want anything to do with me.
* I always been a middle of the road kind of guy. I think there's something great in everything. Therefore, I don't have a strong image such as being a super geek that collects star wars memorabilia, biker, tattooed rough guy, millionaire playboy...you get the picture. It seems like women are most attracted to guys who fit in one category. Someone like me, who doesn't have a "in your face" image, girls pass by me.
* It's extremely difficult to make friends over the age of 25. Most people have their group of lifelong friends, they have jobs and don't have much time to chill and meet new people every weekend, or married and only do couple stuff. If I was a few years younger and know what I know now, I would be better off.
* Every time I do go on dates or have sex, the period in between is so long that I will never get good. It's like I go out on dates for a couple weeks and calibrate my style to get the best results, but then I go dateless for months and feel like it's new all over again. Same with sex. I need to keep practicing in order to get good, and these gaps aren't helping.
I've been wondering about this for a while. Do you find that most American females (especially those under 30) have a "don't talk to me" vibe going on? Are they just faking it? Do they change when a guy that fits their standard is in the room?
* Because of racism and the negative image people see of black men (which I don't fit AT ALL), white and asian women are especially leery of getting serious with a black guy.
* Not only is dating hard all by itself, I'm making it especially tougher going after women who don't want anything to do with me.
* I always been a middle of the road kind of guy. I think there's something great in everything. Therefore, I don't have a strong image such as being a super geek that collects star wars memorabilia, biker, tattooed rough guy, millionaire playboy...you get the picture. It seems like women are most attracted to guys who fit in one category. Someone like me, who doesn't have a "in your face" image, girls pass by me.
* It's extremely difficult to make friends over the age of 25. Most people have their group of lifelong friends, they have jobs and don't have much time to chill and meet new people every weekend, or married and only do couple stuff. If I was a few years younger and know what I know now, I would be better off.
* Every time I do go on dates or have sex, the period in between is so long that I will never get good. It's like I go out on dates for a couple weeks and calibrate my style to get the best results, but then I go dateless for months and feel like it's new all over again. Same with sex. I need to keep practicing in order to get good, and these gaps aren't helping.
I've been wondering about this for a while. Do you find that most American females (especially those under 30) have a "don't talk to me" vibe going on? Are they just faking it? Do they change when a guy that fits their standard is in the room?