Recent content by Scuba Steve

Some positives for me... As of today, I am back in my 36's. When I started this on my December 1st, I was wearing 42's and they were snug... I met a chic last night under the most un-likely of circumstances. Wasn't looking. I came home and was walking up to my building when I saw a woman...

Hello All, hope everyone is well, I met this morning with one of the leasing girls in my apartment complex. She is roughly my age (40-45) and is immaculate, both in style and sexiness. Beautiful woman. I have heard her reference a boyfriend in the past (not with me, but in conversations...

Gizzy, she answered the question for you... She TOLD you she met someone. Case closed. She is keeping up with the texts and stuff to keep you on the back burner in case it doesn't work out with the new guy. Like Rollo Tomassi, and other's have said, the message is in the medium (her actions)...

Yea, I'm basically practicing... Not to say I wouldn't f her, but no hopes aren't up... I am not going to pursue further, unless she initiates again...

Gentlemen, First let me say that I appreciate all of you who have offered up advice on my previous posts. It seems many of the same people reviewed and commented on my previous posts "Making progress" and "Getting over an ex." Not to be redundant, but briefly, for those who have never read...

I'm curuous as to WHY anyone would go without a condom unless with your wife or LTR girlfriend???

I've only been red pilled for about six to eight weeks. I'm in the process of reading the rational male. I have a list of other books that he recommends reading and recommended reading from this site. I am about halfway through the DJ Bible very interesting read. December 1st I was 248 pounds...

She lives at home with my 16 year old son and her mother. I've been giving my wife $1,525.00 per month since we separated. Doing that more for my kids than for her. Haven't talked to lawyer yet because I believed we were gonna work it out.

My daughter works at a bar/restaurant across from where my wife works. The one bartender, who is mid thirties and "jacked" was always asking about my wife. (I did not know this until recently) My wife is 41 but looks 30 and is HB8 or higher. Now that we're separated, my wife goes in there...

In another post on this forum, one of the guys made the following statement: "To heal you need time. Women, drink, drugs, random sex will make a person feel more shallow and become more empty. And it extends the time needed to heal." I'm recently separated (Since December 2017) from my wife of...

I didn't even think about that...

So, I have posted a few times since joining. I am a 45 year old who is going through a divorce after a 21 year marriage. I am newly red-pilled and a rookie at having game. I have been reading blogs and books like crazy. Last night, I did my 1st cold approach at the gym. A girl and I were...

Hey, brother. You're right, at 45 y/old the LAST thing, let me re-phase that, I will never settle down and get married again. My issue is that I have been out of the game for 21 years and had let myself go. December 1st, 2017 I was 248. I'm 5'8. I've been strict on my eating and hitting...

OK guys, I am new here. Going through a divorce after a 21 year marriage. Was thinking of going MGTOW for a while, but f*ck that. She is having her fun so why should I sit home, right? I've been browsing some of the online dating sites and I'm curious to the opinions of anyone that has had...

I was 248 December 1st. No gym, eating like sh*t. I woke up at 207 this morning. Breafast: I eat half portion of Farina or steel cut oats, with 1 cup of egg whites and half cup of blueberries, raspberries or black berries. No sugars or flavorings. Throughout the day: I make (night before)...