Recent content by captain A

I have gone NC with chics that have popped up out of the blue six to eight months later....it's not a hard science. There's a line in "swingers' that's something along the lines of "they won't come back until you've forgotten about them"...."so if I pretend to forget she'll come...

So..I noticed a while back that I would "re-meet" women that I actually had met before. On two occasions in the last two months a woman has introduced herself to me and I've had to casually smile and remind them that "oh, we've met before...didn't quite catch your name the first time though" on...

text is ONLY for setting up times to hang out IRL. Following this rule will change your game immensely. Never text chat with a girl (unless she's a friend that you are willing to give up ANY chance AT ALL of banging any time soon...and by soon I mean within the next twenty years)

why are you not hanging out with other potentials already?

love this idea. I'm gonna try it soon. chics flake all the time. I never...ever....ever....set up a first date doing something that I don't already want to be doing. I always scope my week out and find an event I'd like to be at anyway so if she flakes, i'm still being productive and will most...

you definitely did the right thing dude. Always wrap that sh*t up. I sometimes postpone sex if I don't feel 100% about it just to see what their reaction is...It's hard to do and not piss them off if you aren't good at maintaining good convo and keeping the sparks flying anyway but it's amazing...

You shouldn't necessarily be looking for shoes that "stylish" so much as shoes that fit YOUR STYLE. If your style is rugged/outdoors - don't go wearing boots around all the time - but find a few pair of shoes suitable for different occasions that reflect that ruggedness - go for earthtones and...

Very very far between. My standards for "keepers" might be a little bit too stringent but out of all the girls I've slept with/dated in the last ten years only 2 of them were women I could have seen myself staying with. They don't come along too often but they make you level up in a HUGE way...

Dude....what everyone else is saying. DO NOT see her again. It'll be even more meaningful if you just drop the plans. Tell her you're busy and keep telling her you're busy. I wouldn't even NC on this one b/c it'll make her keep coming back wondering why you aren't her puppet anymore. The ONLY...

I agree with Mike32ct. Sometimes its good to try to notice something that has caught her eye. Like maybe she was checking out the lights or the decor of the club and you can talk about that as a quick opener. You gotta get good at noticing subtle facial expressions in people so you can see...

Oh I totally agree with Down Low....I don't want somebody to dump my crap on at all..that's why I have friends and a solid social network. I enjoy younger women - but at the same time I don't like dealing with some of the B.S. younger girl stuff that comes with it sometimes.....like trying to...

I'm sure this has been discussed. But I'm curious as to what kind of luck some of you guys have with more mature women. My situation is that I've never had kids and never got married. I've never wanted either of those things. It seems that a lot of higher quality women get snatched up by the...

she obviously wants your nuts but that AW crap just isn't cool. You have to show that you have standards and stick to them. Ditch that girl.

if you're looking at Aldo for a casual shoe I would suggest something like this: http://www.aldoshoes.com/us/men/shoes/sneakers/89374489-washko/97 ....or spend a little more $$ and get something like this...

...yah...and this. She has no business fvcking me and if i were any one of her ex-boyfriends I'd be upset....I have a few ex girlfriends who would be upset because they were constantly accusing me of messing around with this girl when I never did. Another reason why I'm deciding to just be happy...