Recent content by Anpha

Thanks for your insight mate, there can only be so much one can speculate from knowing nothing from my situation. The ex is from Hong Kong and an international student. I was 21 and still studying, and she was already thinking about settling down and looking for ‘security’ after a year of...

Thanks for your responses guys. I’ve only told my close friends and they advise me to stay away, as it will eventually find a way to get back at me. However I see this as a rather do and regret later, then having regret not doing in the future.

My ex of 3 years ago has been in contact with me recently, and things have escalated to the point of me ****ing her every time we meet. I enjoy it, she enjoys it, however she is engaged, and is meeting me behind the guys back. I broke it off with this girl 3 years ago due to her wanting...

Long story short: - met girl on tinder - she knew me through friends of friends - we had two dates and on second date I closed and pushed sex heres where i ****ed up - she really liked me? and is now calling me her boyfriend after a couple dates - i havn't told anyone about her, she's told some...

29/12/2017 Health/weight: Been cooking more frequently, trying to stop going out. Current weight is 122kg. Been doing IF pretty religiously and getting some good fasting time between meals. Stomach getting smaller probably due to less carbs, and my body holding onto less water. Need to cut more...

I know there's a grey area, and it's not just a choice between looking large or going the lengthy skinny look, but I'm just so confused because I'm not sure whether I should be choosing my goals based on what I want, or what will benefit most for my future career/relationship other prospects...

Hey guys, I recently made a progress thread and have been thinking about how I am going to progress fitness wise this year. I'm currently obese, but think I hold my weight pretty well. Throughout the last 3-4 years I've fluctuated weights between 130kg > 90kg > 120k (current). This was because...

I still have this inbuilt fear of rejection to talking to others for no reason and wasting their time (my attitude is like this - don't like to people to waste my time on mundane chit). I will have to actively try and be more open and social. Cheerw

It was a group of guys training at the cables, and then the one dude sees the chick at the leg press, nudges his friends and immediately approaches. Weird sight really.

Hey everyone, I just noticed a DJ in the gym today. A scrawny kid being loud and doing bro stuff with about another 5 guys. You know, the type of guy who goes loud on everything and wants people to look. He just bothered a chick during his set and number closed. Im dumbfounded. Is this me...

My own little thread where I can post random thoughts and insights about my programming and fitness. I turned 23 yesterday, and have little to show for it. I'm 125kg, 175cm and labelled as OBESE. My goal before i hit 24 is to hit 90kg, and go for that no matter what. Current stats: - Bench: 5...

How good of a **** did you give this girl to have her on a string like that? Damn man

No idea, no fap November got to me and I had no plates or other options to release. And yeah, now that i’ve rubbed one out and went to the gym, I see that my realizations were based on her frame and wording at the time, and the fact I was pedastalizing her for some makeup sex. god damn why do I...

I was the one to break it off, I was the one leading the relationship, and i was the one who eventually led her away. I initially told her to move on, as 'we' wouldn't work. I dated a couple plates thereafter but never found any chemistry. So i did the unthinkable, i tried to dabble in the...

Hindsight is 20/20. The interest level she is giving you. From your post it's the friendliness, smiling, conversations and proximity etc. Be aware that you can misinterpret IL, but you should still go for it if your gut feeling is there.