I'm on level 7-8.
https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2lpafb
Problem is that dread was only ever intended to save a dead bedroom... I fvck 4-5 times a week most weeks. I'm at the point where I turn down sex if I'm not seeing genuine interest.
I've always heard about dread game, but never took the time to read it. What you just shared helped me understand more about things I do that help me have success with women. There was a time I didn't do these things(in my marriage to first woman I had sex with).
I reside at the level 8-9. But push me and you will see level 10. I don't have a problem telling someone what I think. I have no fear of going alone. A woman is either in or out. Don't act right, and I will shut you out. I am the Captain of my own ship. I'm a dihk at times. And women respect me because of these things. My attitude is congruent with Dread Game and its congruent with my personality. Raw and Real is attractive to women, they find it very masculine.
Here are a few examples of Dread Game I've done in relationships that had major impacts on women.
Dread Level 8(Show her you are capable of talking to pretty girls)
There's a country dance bar that I have spent a lot of time in over the years. The best looking women on the planet go to dance there and there are always lots of them, which is why I liked it so much. I made friends with a HB9 smoking hot late 20's bartender. I never hit on her, never asked for her number, never over-tipped. She always remembered my drink, there was always a free drink thrown in the mix, she got my name on a list so I didn't have to pay the door fee and could skip the line. I made it a point to bring every new girl I dated and introduce her to this bartender. It convinced these new girls that I had options. And you can bet I got questioned on my relationship with the bartender, but it worked to my advantage. I was always vague with my replies. Every woman wants a desirable man. It turns them on.
Dread Level 9(Speak Plainly but no ultimatums).
My last LTR(I'll call her Heather) once told me how she thought we had great sex together and enjoyed our sex like no guy before. She asked me if I felt the same way. I did not, so I unknowingly threw some dread game out there and told her it was good but could be better. I told her that sex with my ex(whom she investigated on social media and thought was pretty) was the best I've ever had. My response ruined the night, she started crying and we went back to her house. She was over it the next day. From there on out she turned it up in the bedroom. We had way better sex than ever before. A few months later she asked me if I was happier about it and I told her yes, thank you and that I appreciated her effort. I knew I had a good girl.
Dread Level 10(Tell her how its going to be).
I broke up with my my last LTR(heather) several months back. We had the stress of building a new place together on a large tract of land that took about 2yrs to finish and her job was super stressful. My needs weren't getting met. I had to do all the work and wasn't getting much support from her. She was real combative. Her submissive side evaporated. I wasn't even in the mood to have sex with her and turned her down many times.
After leaving her behind at a restaurant 30miles from home and giving her the ultimatum that if she couldn't act right she needed to pack up her schitt and leave, she finally left.
One day I told her i would have a hot 25yo in 4wks to bang and thats what I did. It was the first new girl I'd fuhked in 5yrs and it was good to remind myself of what I am capable of. She still asks me about that 25yo. I refuse to tell her anything. We technically weren't together so it doesn't matter. But just the fact that I had what it took to get an attractive 25yo put her on notice once again. It also helped her realize where her value stood. Heather is still a nice looking HB8 that most all guys would want but she is in her 40's. A 40 plus y/o woman better act right, because she doesn't have youth to fall back on. Their power diminishes with their looks, they need to understand that. A top man keeps increasing his value as he ages. Always let them know how its going to be. Put your money where your mouth is.
She also wanted to take a break and live in separate places when we split up but still see each other. I refused. Told her I don't take breaks. I put that girl thru several months of heartache and emotional stress. We stayed talking but I was very short and didn't make much of an effort.
We are now talking again, so we will see. Who knows. I have no expectations or preconceived notions. If it works it works, if it doesn't it doesn't. She's a top notch chic, but I'll find another one if I have to.