"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you study salesmanship you ll notice that the pundits with such problems as SALES REUCTANCE or ANXIETY for donkeys years
selling is an, old science sarging is still in its infancy hence aspiring DJs have to learn from the ol marketing pros like ZIG ZIGLAR JOE GIRARD GITOMER ( check out those names on GOOGLE
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Zig Ziglar is good stuff:

"Do what you fear most, and you will control your fear."

"Sell the sizzle, not the steak."

"In a restaurant, you get everything you want and then pay later. Life is the opposite - you have to pay for everything you want before you get it."
 

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Look up Zig Ziglar videos on Youtube. He is the greatest salesman in history, no question. And he is also incredibly wise in the ways of life and success.
 

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sarging is like selling
the first 30 SECONDS WILL MAKE YOU OR BREAK YOU
Like in selling you only got 30 seconds to get her attention

like in selling you must ask questions

asking for help is the most congruent way to get her attention

ANYBODY can ask for directions often the broad will take place to your destination


AT THE GROCERY STORE ASKING QUESTIONS
Pretending you don t know such or such a product
again she ll take you to the cheese counter ( if you are after an obscure cheese )
 
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