"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So I met this chick at a beach far away when I was on vacation. She was extremely hot, 9.5, super-model body, everything, just stunning.

It was a cold approach on my part, but we spent a nice afternoon on the beach together and I had her laughing and had kino going on the whole time, it was awesome. She was definatly into me.

She left me her contact info and turns out she lives an hour (drive) away. I'm 17 though, so I have no car at the moment.

I've only talked to her twice on MSN, a couple of weeks after I met her, though I have no clue how to set up this date so I can bang her brains out! I've only told her so far that I might be "passing by" sometime soon, and she got excited.

What works best, typically, in these types of situations (person doesn't live close-by)? I know I'm basically going to have to haul my ass over there, by bus, etc. but what next? Where should I bang her? Etc. etc.

Any advice is welcomed. :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by benassi
talk to her about it :D
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That's the thing! I don't to plan it out, I want it to seem casual! I've had girls that were goin' nuts for me flake out at the last second for absolutly ridiculous reasons, and don't want to risk it with this jem!
 
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tell her to meet you up at the beach, then go to a private place (walk/watever) and do wat you have to do!
 
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LOL I wish there was a beach around here! I actually met her while we were both "away" on vacation.. the beach is like 10 hours away though thanks for the tips :)

Maybe camping.. .hmmm.,.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Invite her to visit you....or just get on the friggin' bus to her town.

Where to bang her.....

...in the backseat of an unlocked car
...the bus station bathroom
...in the wooded area of a park
...in an alley


Seriously thought, maybe you can borrow you mom's credit card and get a cheap hotel room for the night. Check in early to drop your bag, and then take her back there later on.
 
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Ah, ****. I just found out she just got a new BF while I was gone.

Should I still go for it? She's very young and gullible.
 
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I can’t see why the majority of guys here advise against pursuing a girl with a bf. Go for it if she comes down but don’t go to her.

Remer a bf is just an obstacle.

Ninja out
 
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Originally posted by Black_Italian
I can’t see why the majority of guys here advise against pursuing a girl with a bf. Go for it if she comes down but don’t go to her.

Remer a bf is just an obstacle.

Ninja out
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Damn those moral obstacles always gettin in the way.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just because a hot girl has a bf doesnt mean that she doesn't want you. Remember, hot girls always have a bf, they just need an excuse (you the DJ) to dump his a$$.
 
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Originally posted by mrRuckus
Damn those moral obstacles always gettin in the way.
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Understood if you have moral issues it’s a different story. My viewpoint is if a man can’t keep control of his women she was never his women to begin with.

Ninja out
 
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