"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You've heard this a thousand times, but...

Eulogy

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So I met this chick at a beach far away when I was on vacation. She was extremely hot, 9.5, super-model body, everything, just stunning.

It was a cold approach on my part, but we spent a nice afternoon on the beach together and I had her laughing and had kino going on the whole time, it was awesome. She was definatly into me.

She left me her contact info and turns out she lives an hour (drive) away. I'm 17 though, so I have no car at the moment.

I've only talked to her twice on MSN, a couple of weeks after I met her, though I have no clue how to set up this date so I can bang her brains out! I've only told her so far that I might be "passing by" sometime soon, and she got excited.

What works best, typically, in these types of situations (person doesn't live close-by)? I know I'm basically going to have to haul my ass over there, by bus, etc. but what next? Where should I bang her? Etc. etc.

Any advice is welcomed. :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Eulogy

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Originally posted by benassi
talk to her about it :D
That's the thing! I don't to plan it out, I want it to seem casual! I've had girls that were goin' nuts for me flake out at the last second for absolutly ridiculous reasons, and don't want to risk it with this jem!
 

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tell her to meet you up at the beach, then go to a private place (walk/watever) and do wat you have to do!
 

Eulogy

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LOL I wish there was a beach around here! I actually met her while we were both "away" on vacation.. the beach is like 10 hours away though thanks for the tips :)

Maybe camping.. .hmmm.,.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Invite her to visit you....or just get on the friggin' bus to her town.

Where to bang her.....

...in the backseat of an unlocked car
...the bus station bathroom
...in the wooded area of a park
...in an alley


Seriously thought, maybe you can borrow you mom's credit card and get a cheap hotel room for the night. Check in early to drop your bag, and then take her back there later on.
 

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Ah, ****. I just found out she just got a new BF while I was gone.

Should I still go for it? She's very young and gullible.
 

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I can’t see why the majority of guys here advise against pursuing a girl with a bf. Go for it if she comes down but don’t go to her.

Remer a bf is just an obstacle.

Ninja out
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
I can’t see why the majority of guys here advise against pursuing a girl with a bf. Go for it if she comes down but don’t go to her.

Remer a bf is just an obstacle.

Ninja out

Damn those moral obstacles always gettin in the way.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just because a hot girl has a bf doesnt mean that she doesn't want you. Remember, hot girls always have a bf, they just need an excuse (you the DJ) to dump his a$$.
 

Black_Italian

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Originally posted by mrRuckus
Damn those moral obstacles always gettin in the way.
Understood if you have moral issues it’s a different story. My viewpoint is if a man can’t keep control of his women she was never his women to begin with.

Ninja out
 
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