"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"You're such a little kid"

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Audiophile

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I always get this comment from girls. I don't have any problem with it because I'm just having fun/enjoying myself. I just like to mess around and stuff, being playful, etc... and I always get told that I'm exactly like a kid. Is this something that I should work on (acting slightly more "mature")? I'm chill when I want to be, and playful when I feel like it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If you're happy and carefree and enjoy life and getting laid, then who cares?

We all weren't meant to be the serious "James Bond" types.

If you're a goofball and not getting laid, then sure, you might need to grow up a bit. It's all about what's working for you.
 
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Mantis Toboggan (I still can't take that name seriously haha) is correct, it all depends on whether or not it's working out for you.

If you're a clown and not making girls feel a SEXUAL attraction for you, it's time for a change. You can be carefree, fun, etc, without making a fool of yourself.

But, if it's working, who gives a fvck?
 
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"what are you a mom?, you got those jessica simpson mom jeans in your closet? LOL, you love my kiddie style! "
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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