"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"You're such a little kid"

Audiophile

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I always get this comment from girls. I don't have any problem with it because I'm just having fun/enjoying myself. I just like to mess around and stuff, being playful, etc... and I always get told that I'm exactly like a kid. Is this something that I should work on (acting slightly more "mature")? I'm chill when I want to be, and playful when I feel like it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mantis Toboggan

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If you're happy and carefree and enjoy life and getting laid, then who cares?

We all weren't meant to be the serious "James Bond" types.

If you're a goofball and not getting laid, then sure, you might need to grow up a bit. It's all about what's working for you.
 

ARrocket

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Mantis Toboggan (I still can't take that name seriously haha) is correct, it all depends on whether or not it's working out for you.

If you're a clown and not making girls feel a SEXUAL attraction for you, it's time for a change. You can be carefree, fun, etc, without making a fool of yourself.

But, if it's working, who gives a fvck?
 

Warrior74

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"what are you a mom?, you got those jessica simpson mom jeans in your closet? LOL, you love my kiddie style! "
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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