"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"You're so hard to please..."

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dohta

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So ever since I took some advice from this forum about 2 months ago, girls have been saying this line to me:

"You're so hard to please..."

I'm guessing that means I've managed to establish that I'm the prize to be won over so it's a good thing?

What would you say if a girl said that line to you? Too bad I was caught by surprise when the girls said that to me so I just shrugged and gave a smile.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Are you hard to please or do you want something other than what average guy on wants? Yeah, your answer to women who ask is in that question.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Are you hard to please or do you want something other than what average guy on wants? Yeah, your answer to women who ask is in that question.
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What do you mean?

A girl that once LJBF'ed me about a year ago, just said that to me while I was at her house alone a few days ago. I was a much bigger AFC back then and she never said that line to me. I take it that it is a sign of improvement?

Then I met a new girl at a friend's party and it all started when she asked everyone what drinks they wanted. I said I wanted a sprite and she brought it over and said "anything else?". I basically just gave her friendly orders like "ohh I dunno I could use a cushion" and "that chair over there seems better than mine, I could use that". So I fool around with her like that and she finally blurts out "You're so hard to please!" But she kept asking me what else I could do for her so I doubt she meant it in a bad way.
 
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Depends doesn't it? If you're making it obvious like a one trick pony they will play you for a sucker and amuse themselves.

If you're doing it right and they like you they will want to please you, will be intregued and excited and so forth.. they will soon get tired if that's all you have to offer them though!

It's up to you to interpret what they mean when they say things though - you was there. :)

The Muscly Jerk
 
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