"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"You're so hard to please..."

dohta

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So ever since I took some advice from this forum about 2 months ago, girls have been saying this line to me:

"You're so hard to please..."

I'm guessing that means I've managed to establish that I'm the prize to be won over so it's a good thing?

What would you say if a girl said that line to you? Too bad I was caught by surprise when the girls said that to me so I just shrugged and gave a smile.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Are you hard to please or do you want something other than what average guy on wants? Yeah, your answer to women who ask is in that question.
 

dohta

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Are you hard to please or do you want something other than what average guy on wants? Yeah, your answer to women who ask is in that question.
What do you mean?

A girl that once LJBF'ed me about a year ago, just said that to me while I was at her house alone a few days ago. I was a much bigger AFC back then and she never said that line to me. I take it that it is a sign of improvement?

Then I met a new girl at a friend's party and it all started when she asked everyone what drinks they wanted. I said I wanted a sprite and she brought it over and said "anything else?". I basically just gave her friendly orders like "ohh I dunno I could use a cushion" and "that chair over there seems better than mine, I could use that". So I fool around with her like that and she finally blurts out "You're so hard to please!" But she kept asking me what else I could do for her so I doubt she meant it in a bad way.
 

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Depends doesn't it? If you're making it obvious like a one trick pony they will play you for a sucker and amuse themselves.

If you're doing it right and they like you they will want to please you, will be intregued and excited and so forth.. they will soon get tired if that's all you have to offer them though!

It's up to you to interpret what they mean when they say things though - you was there. :)

The Muscly Jerk
 
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