"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"You're so hard to please..."

dohta

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So ever since I took some advice from this forum about 2 months ago, girls have been saying this line to me:

"You're so hard to please..."

I'm guessing that means I've managed to establish that I'm the prize to be won over so it's a good thing?

What would you say if a girl said that line to you? Too bad I was caught by surprise when the girls said that to me so I just shrugged and gave a smile.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Are you hard to please or do you want something other than what average guy on wants? Yeah, your answer to women who ask is in that question.
 

dohta

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Are you hard to please or do you want something other than what average guy on wants? Yeah, your answer to women who ask is in that question.
What do you mean?

A girl that once LJBF'ed me about a year ago, just said that to me while I was at her house alone a few days ago. I was a much bigger AFC back then and she never said that line to me. I take it that it is a sign of improvement?

Then I met a new girl at a friend's party and it all started when she asked everyone what drinks they wanted. I said I wanted a sprite and she brought it over and said "anything else?". I basically just gave her friendly orders like "ohh I dunno I could use a cushion" and "that chair over there seems better than mine, I could use that". So I fool around with her like that and she finally blurts out "You're so hard to please!" But she kept asking me what else I could do for her so I doubt she meant it in a bad way.
 

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Depends doesn't it? If you're making it obvious like a one trick pony they will play you for a sucker and amuse themselves.

If you're doing it right and they like you they will want to please you, will be intregued and excited and so forth.. they will soon get tired if that's all you have to offer them though!

It's up to you to interpret what they mean when they say things though - you was there. :)

The Muscly Jerk
 
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