"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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youre so adorable and innocent

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This is the second girl to call me innocent and adorable.the first one called me this and then after we fvcked she was like "wow you're not the innocent little kid I thought you were". Now this second girl is saying the same thing. She thinks I'm a virgin, innocent and uncorrupted o_O . I don't get it. I don't feel like I project myself this way. I'm not asking what it means but is it detrimental to my game at all? The only reason I can think of coming off in that way is because I was out of the game for a couple months focusing on only school. But its becoming a trend now.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You're 20 and achieving your goals. Awesome!... Wait, you're asking if other peoples opinions about you matter? I think you know the answer to that question yourself.
 
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Dedication said:
You're 20 and achieving your goals. Awesome!... Wait, you're asking if other peoples opinions about you matter? I think you know the answer to that question yourself.
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Wow literally never thought of it in that way. Ouch I guess sometimes we accidently slip into the whole "I wonder what they think of me " mindset. Thanks dedication for putting me back into my perspective. Much appreciated..
 
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JohnChops said:
This is the second girl to call me innocent and adorable.the first one called me this and then after we fvcked she was like "wow you're not the innocent little kid I thought you were". Now this second girl is saying the same thing. She thinks I'm a virgin, innocent and uncorrupted o_O . I don't get it. I don't feel like I project myself this way. I'm not asking what it means but is it detrimental to my game at all? The only reason I can think of coming off in that way is because I was out of the game for a couple months focusing on only school. But its becoming a trend now.
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Sounds like you're being a sneaky lil ninjaman. Seductive lil mufuka. :D
 
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