"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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youre so adorable and innocent

JohnChops

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This is the second girl to call me innocent and adorable.the first one called me this and then after we fvcked she was like "wow you're not the innocent little kid I thought you were". Now this second girl is saying the same thing. She thinks I'm a virgin, innocent and uncorrupted o_O . I don't get it. I don't feel like I project myself this way. I'm not asking what it means but is it detrimental to my game at all? The only reason I can think of coming off in that way is because I was out of the game for a couple months focusing on only school. But its becoming a trend now.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You're 20 and achieving your goals. Awesome!... Wait, you're asking if other peoples opinions about you matter? I think you know the answer to that question yourself.
 

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Dedication said:
You're 20 and achieving your goals. Awesome!... Wait, you're asking if other peoples opinions about you matter? I think you know the answer to that question yourself.

Wow literally never thought of it in that way. Ouch I guess sometimes we accidently slip into the whole "I wonder what they think of me " mindset. Thanks dedication for putting me back into my perspective. Much appreciated..
 

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JohnChops said:
This is the second girl to call me innocent and adorable.the first one called me this and then after we fvcked she was like "wow you're not the innocent little kid I thought you were". Now this second girl is saying the same thing. She thinks I'm a virgin, innocent and uncorrupted o_O . I don't get it. I don't feel like I project myself this way. I'm not asking what it means but is it detrimental to my game at all? The only reason I can think of coming off in that way is because I was out of the game for a couple months focusing on only school. But its becoming a trend now.
Sounds like you're being a sneaky lil ninjaman. Seductive lil mufuka. :D
 
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