"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"You're my baby's daddy!"

sageproduct

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Hey guys.

I was just thinking about something I read a long, long time ago--about a single, pregnant girl who was trying to have sex with guys and trick them into thinking that the baby was theirs.

Does anyone know of/have experience of a situation like this? I've never had sex but I feel this is something I should be prepared for. Condoms aren't 100% effective, and breaking is a possibility. If you have sex with a girl, protected or unprotected, you can't prove without a shadow of a doubt that you didn't impregnate her, right?

I know the easy answer is to stay away from street tramps who would be more likely to pull something like this--but what do you do if you have protected sex with a girl, later she reveals that she's pregnant, and says you're the father?


I was thinking about this, and it seemed like a really sticky situation.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sherlock-Holmes

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Hey,

There could be more protection if the girl puts on a cap, or has taken contraceptives.

Cheers,
 

Zarky

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only a real tool could be fooled into paying for someone else's kid these days. Every state in the US and all the countries I know of in the western world offer paternity testing before a court can declare an UNMARRIED man to be the kid's dad. Unless the dude signs something called an "acknowledgment of paternity" that they try to give you in the hospital after the kid is born.

Any guy who could be "bullied" by some chick into not insisting on a DNA test is a real pansy.
 

backbreaker

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twice dawg.

first time i was 21 years old, banging this married woman who was 25ish.. 24 i think. i was black she was white. we used condoms all the time. she wants to use her "new special condoms".. i was like you sure because these ones i have are pretty hard core. she insisted. we used.. i was like man this sucks. did not thing anything of it.

she had poked holes in the condom and saved the sperm.

this was all a poly. she was already pregnant by her husband. ovbiously, lol, she did not think this **** all the way out ( think me myself and irene). she wanted to leave her husband and wanted to "be with me". i was dating quite a few women at the time.. nevermind the fact that she was a married woman, that didn't matter. she wanted me to settle down.


then.. actually hell like 2 months later, it was right damn near next to each other, this was way closer.. i i quite sure she actually WAS pregnant.. she had not had a lot of sex before i met her, she had just turned 18, i was 21, she was a firend of my cousins, i ran into her at the movies and tapped that ass. anyway, i really didn't NUT inside of her. she just texted me and told me "i'ts yours!". we had like a man tribunal over my house it was like 5 of us. after futher review, the ruling on the field was that it was not worth the risk.. i sent her an 800 dollar money order and never heard from her again.

when i was 17 i was screwing my boss at mc donalds (who was 20) and she started playing around telling me she was pregnant and i broke up with her on the spot, i don't think she was pregnant though.

crazy women out there. you screw enough of them you will run into a few headcases.

my fiancee actaully got quite pissed at me becuase we got tested when she found out she was pregnant.. that was one of the biggest arguments we ever got into to date. no chances.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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backbreaker said:
my fiancee actaully got quite pissed at me becuase we got tested when she found out she was pregnant.. that was one of the biggest arguments we ever got into to date. no chances.
Lol.

I told my wife almost as soon as we started dating that it's just a matter of policy that if a woman ever claims to be pregnant then a paternity test is to be completed before I sign a birth certificate.

It doesn't matter if we are married and planning a kid or not.

This way she knows to expect it and not to take it personal.
 

K2000kidd

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actionjaxson said:
dont you guys watch maury? take the test to prove the ***** wrong.
LMAO One chick on that show had 9 guys take the test and none were the father.
Must've been some kind of party the night she got knocked up with that one
 

morepoonplease

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I had a chick try this one on me, this is fairly recent too... when the kid popped out i didnt see it or anything i demanded a paternity test and guess what? kid wasn't mine. i thank god everyday for genetic testing...
 
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