"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"You're my baby's daddy!"

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Hey guys.

I was just thinking about something I read a long, long time ago--about a single, pregnant girl who was trying to have sex with guys and trick them into thinking that the baby was theirs.

Does anyone know of/have experience of a situation like this? I've never had sex but I feel this is something I should be prepared for. Condoms aren't 100% effective, and breaking is a possibility. If you have sex with a girl, protected or unprotected, you can't prove without a shadow of a doubt that you didn't impregnate her, right?

I know the easy answer is to stay away from street tramps who would be more likely to pull something like this--but what do you do if you have protected sex with a girl, later she reveals that she's pregnant, and says you're the father?


I was thinking about this, and it seemed like a really sticky situation.
 

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Sherlock-Holmes

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Hey,

There could be more protection if the girl puts on a cap, or has taken contraceptives.

Cheers,
 

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only a real tool could be fooled into paying for someone else's kid these days. Every state in the US and all the countries I know of in the western world offer paternity testing before a court can declare an UNMARRIED man to be the kid's dad. Unless the dude signs something called an "acknowledgment of paternity" that they try to give you in the hospital after the kid is born.

Any guy who could be "bullied" by some chick into not insisting on a DNA test is a real pansy.
 

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twice dawg.

first time i was 21 years old, banging this married woman who was 25ish.. 24 i think. i was black she was white. we used condoms all the time. she wants to use her "new special condoms".. i was like you sure because these ones i have are pretty hard core. she insisted. we used.. i was like man this sucks. did not thing anything of it.

she had poked holes in the condom and saved the sperm.

this was all a poly. she was already pregnant by her husband. ovbiously, lol, she did not think this **** all the way out ( think me myself and irene). she wanted to leave her husband and wanted to "be with me". i was dating quite a few women at the time.. nevermind the fact that she was a married woman, that didn't matter. she wanted me to settle down.


then.. actually hell like 2 months later, it was right damn near next to each other, this was way closer.. i i quite sure she actually WAS pregnant.. she had not had a lot of sex before i met her, she had just turned 18, i was 21, she was a firend of my cousins, i ran into her at the movies and tapped that ass. anyway, i really didn't NUT inside of her. she just texted me and told me "i'ts yours!". we had like a man tribunal over my house it was like 5 of us. after futher review, the ruling on the field was that it was not worth the risk.. i sent her an 800 dollar money order and never heard from her again.

when i was 17 i was screwing my boss at mc donalds (who was 20) and she started playing around telling me she was pregnant and i broke up with her on the spot, i don't think she was pregnant though.

crazy women out there. you screw enough of them you will run into a few headcases.

my fiancee actaully got quite pissed at me becuase we got tested when she found out she was pregnant.. that was one of the biggest arguments we ever got into to date. no chances.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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backbreaker said:
my fiancee actaully got quite pissed at me becuase we got tested when she found out she was pregnant.. that was one of the biggest arguments we ever got into to date. no chances.
Lol.

I told my wife almost as soon as we started dating that it's just a matter of policy that if a woman ever claims to be pregnant then a paternity test is to be completed before I sign a birth certificate.

It doesn't matter if we are married and planning a kid or not.

This way she knows to expect it and not to take it personal.
 

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actionjaxson said:
dont you guys watch maury? take the test to prove the ***** wrong.
LMAO One chick on that show had 9 guys take the test and none were the father.
Must've been some kind of party the night she got knocked up with that one
 

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I had a chick try this one on me, this is fairly recent too... when the kid popped out i didnt see it or anything i demanded a paternity test and guess what? kid wasn't mine. i thank god everyday for genetic testing...
 
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