“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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'You're intense'

FortunateSon

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When someone calls you intense, what does it mean? And what are they referring to? Numerous women have called me an intense person and even some men that I have met or know have also called me intense. I never really took any notice of it before until yesterday when my brother-in-law said I was an intense person! I asked him what he meant but he would expand further on what he meant.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Atom Smasher

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Seeming too intense can include the following:

1) Staring to deeply and intensely into someone's eyes
2) Compulsively needing to comment on every little comment someone makes
3) Compulsively needing to comment on every little aspect of the environment
4) Compulsively needing to comment on the dynamics of the relationship
5) Speaking aggressively
6) Seeming interested "in principal" but remaining personally detached, as if observing and not participating in the interaction
7) Speaking with too much vocal inflection (dramatically)

Those are a few off the top of my head. I'm sure others will chime in.
 

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I have trouble with it myself sometimes.

I would compulsively AMOG a person, by shaking their hand a certain way, or keeping really strong eye-contact. I noticed some people got annoyed by the compulsive AMOG-ing so I tried to tone it down. I'm still trying to look for the right balance between humble and arrogant.

I just try to see the humor in everything and lighten up.
 

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It doesn't have anything to do with aggression or intimidation. It's just subtle AMOG-ing. Pats on the shoulder, being the one to end the handshake, etc. And when you shake someone's hand, your hands have to be level. If one person's palm is angled downward, that's a subtle form of AMOGing. When I watched some documentaries on body-language I noticed I was doing politician bull-crap.

Personally I like to be militant. But I don't like to interfere with other people's personal space.

I'm not a domineering guy. I just don't like to be fvcked with.

All in all, I see it like this: trying to AMOG someone is just another form of qualifying yourself/overcompensation.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Depends on who is saying it. If its a girl and only she is saying it, forget it, its just something she has a problem with and is maybe sh!t testing you, if more than on person says it, colleagues, fellow students, take note. its a sign you take yourself and the world too seriously. being intense isnt necessarily a bad thing but you have to apply its right, socialy its never good though
 

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There seems to be mixed views here.

I honestly have no idea what I do to be labelled 'intense'.

I don't even think I'm an Alpha male and I don't walk around acting tough.

I never enter a room with the intention of being the focal point of attention.

I'm quite quiet and reserved, I rarely smile unless I'm happy. I wear my emotions on my sleeve.

If someone crosses the boundaries of what I think isn't acceptable, I'll let them know about it.

At times my mood change like the weather.

I'm not afraid to voice my opinion on matters, even when not asked I'll still voice my opinion on something.

I still don't understand where the 'intense' comments are coming from. :confused:
 
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